Im sorry you are going threw this I use to be a passive parent and I made all my mistakes with my first 2 children I am now a mother of 4 the oldest is 8 she is my only girl and I have 3 boys. If you are with her 24/7 there are several things you can try but the key is consistency. Dr. Phil and everyone else who wrote a book on how to be a parent can never be in your shoes. The bible says if you love your child you will discipline your child and sometimes doing this hurts us more than them, A good old fashion spank on the behind may work(not abuse) but just to let her know who is the boss. Good luck and pray to God for strength and patience....View Thread