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But, is there an age limit on sexy?
If so, what is YOUR limit? And, if not, what makes a person sexy beyond youth?
Are there different rules for men and women?
I agree with the Madonna comments to a point .. she was dressed very tastefully and is showing the world that the older crowd can be hip and upbeat. She has the body and the inner piece with herself to know what she can get away with .. not bad for a 50 year old MOM.
Norma
OK, explain Bill Gates and Warren Buffet. What are they waiting for?
When I grew up women my age were expected to wear ulgy orthopedic shoes, allow thier hair to grow gray and wear shirt waist dresses with tissues stuck in thier belt. Who makes the rules that say what is age appropiate and what is not. Cher and Goldie Hawn still wear sexy , revealing clothes and they look great. You should dress to flatter what you have and what you like.
It would be good to know why you defend such a stance?"
Historically, throughout most cultures a woman's value and attractiveness is greatly diminished as she ages. What is considered "old " has certainly changed as we continue to live longer and healthier but this basic rule so to speak hasn't changed.
That being said, a long-term couple will naturally see only the best in the partner if they are loving still. However to the outsider, the woman at 80 is invariable an old woman while a man in his 80s can still be considered sexy and attractive. Which is why we wink knowingly at the old man with the younger wife but still find it either scandalous or faintly ridiculous when the sexes are reversed. Think of all the snide comments and giggles in regard to Demi Moore and Ashton whats-his-name. Yet there was very little tongue-wagging about Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones.
I also challenge the bizarre concept that childbearing is sexy. If it was so wonderful adn sexy throughout the ages, midwives & physicians wouldn't have fought so hard to make pain relief available to laboring women. I'm all for breastfeeding but it's only sexy to those with a lactation fetish (and they do exist.)
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