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Has anyone had the same kind of problems with SSRI's. I believe after trying three different ones from this category that my son can not tolerate this medication and it doesn't metabolize right in his body.
LisaView Thread
We should chat on the phone sometime. My child is exactly the same age, so we are dealing with puberty as well. When he was just taking the lamictal he put his fist through the wall. He really is a very sweet and loving child, but when the anxiety and irritability are not under control life is a disaster for him and the rest of the family. I think in my son's case with the sensory issues, anxiety, OCD, and puberty this is a challenge for doctors. It's been three days since we added back 10 mg of celexa. I am not sure if it's helping or not. Yes, I have been charting his behavior now for three years. I seem to notice subtle changes in his personality before my husband does. Right now he is making noises like say uhh real loudly to interrupt me when he doesn't want me talking. After about a week or two I should hopefully have enough data to discuss whether the celexa is helping him or not.
I think the psychiatrist might try to convince us to drop the celexa and add abilify again. I just need to find out if he will still gain weight with just the 2mg. That is what my husband didn't like.
Sounds like your daughter is doing well. The therapist keeps reminding me that some day my son won't need medicine hopefully as his front lobe is formed more. I think this kiddoes have an overactive amygdala, which is the flight or fright response.View Thread
I have posted about my 14 year old on this site. She has bipolar, adhd, epilepsy, a learning disability, and cannot read social cues. She also goes into manic rages, has an IEP. She would pick fights with her 2 siblings just to get out the rages. We used to rap her in a blanket when she was 7 until she calmed down, cried it out, then apologized. I know what you are going through. I have been going through it for 7 years as a single parent. Realizing I could not keep her safe and she was negatively affecting my other 2 children, she is now living with her dad. Still, she has been hospitalized over 15 times, and I have had to call the police and tell her she is in a bipolar rage and they come along with the paramedics to the hospital. My suggestion, get the IEP and be vigilant. No one will care or love or fight for your child as much as you will. I had to give up the hope of mainstreaming her before she got to high school. She began self-injuring herself and getting extremely depressed and having suicidal ideation. These kids have a high risk of drug/alcohol abuse to self-medicate so watch that. Also, I fought and got her into a therapeutic day school which the district has to pay and it is year round where she gets daily access to a therapist and group therapy. Atleast I know she is safe at school. I am so sorry there are so many of us going through this and my prayers are with you.View Thread
8 minutes agosydamangrif responded:WendyI can totally relate. I too have a 14 year old bipolar child who also has epilepsy, adhd, and cannot read social cues , meaning she gets bullied and rejected which adds to her low self-esteem. She was diagnosed at age 7, and has been in/out of pediatric psych ward over 13 times. Right now, We are in the er because she was planning on hanging herself and even wrote a suicide note. She goes to a therapeutic day school, so she gets plenty of therapy, along with having an individual therapist and a psychiatrist. She is on 4 different medications, but there is no pill to teach someone who cannot read social cues. It is tragic. I have 2 other kids and had to have her move to her dad's because I could not keep her safe and watch her 24/7. She also began self-injuring last year. It is a nightmare. She needs to be in a long-term facility because she is so unstable and impulsive and her moods cycle rapidly. But that cost 140k a year and unless your child is psychotic, delusional, or hallucinating, the state won't give you the grant. It is tragic the way they treat mentally ill children in this country. I don't have 140k. Her hormones are also all over the place. Here is my suggestion to you...first take care of you, find a support group online. and Cabf is a great organization. I had to give up mainstreaming when I realized that the public school system could not handle her special needs. I love her therapeutic day school as she gets access daily to a therapist and group therapy. I had to fight to get her in because the school district has to pay the bill, but it is a year round school. These kids get into trouble if they do not have a lot of structure and routine.. My daughter would pick fights with her 2 siblings to the point they hated her, because she was going through a manic rage. If you cannot handle him and say, you tell him to get off the phone or computer because it is bedtime, which happened to me, I took away the phone and mouse and she fought with me to get them back. I called 911 and she had to be taken to the hospital. If you cannot keep him safe, or he is a danger to himself or others, then that is their job. . Many kids get into drugs/alcohol to self medicate... They have a 15 times higher rate of suicide than the regular population. Take it seriously. I have already lost 2 extended family members to this ....My prayers are with you. Also, keep all medication, even non prescription and knives locked up.Report ThisView Thread
I can totally relate. I too have a 14 year old bipolar child who also has epilepsy, adhd, and cannot read social cues , meaning she gets bullied and rejected which adds to her low self-esteem. She was diagnosed at age 7, and has been in/out of pediatric psych ward over 13 times. Right now, We are in the er because she was planning on hanging herself and even wrote a suicide note. She goes to a therapeutic day school, so she gets plenty of therapy, along with having an individual therapist and a psychiatrist. She is on 4 different medications, but there is no pill to teach someone who cannot read social cues. It is tragic. I have 2 other kids and had to have her move to her dad's because I could not keep her safe and watch her 24/7. She also began self-injuring last year. It is a nightmare. She needs to be in a long-term facility because she is so unstable and impulsive and her moods cycle rapidly. But that cost 140k a year and unless your child is psychotic, delusional, or hallucinating, the state won't give you the grant. It is tragic the way they treat mentally ill children in this country. I don't have 140k. Her hormones are also all over the place. Here is my suggestion to you...first take care of you, find a support group online . I bet you don't have one close by . Also, when she is totally out of control, you need to call 911. My daughter would pick fights with her 2 siblings to the point they hated her, because she was going through a manic rage. You don't say if she does that. If you cannot handle her and say, you tell her to get off the phone or computer because it is bedtime, which happened to me, I took away the phone and mouse and she fought with me to get them back. I called and she had to be taken to the hospital. If you cannot keep her safe, or she is a danger to herself or others, then that is their job. Tell them she is bipolar .ALso, I am sure there are curfews in your town for teens. If she breaks it, call the police. Many kids get into drugs/alcohol to self medicate..if you suspect she has, drug test her. They have a 15 times higher rate of suicide than the regular population. Take it seriously. I have already lost 2 extended family members to this ....My prayers are with you. Also, keep all medication, even non prescription and knives locked up.View Thread
This is a complex situation and I can see why you feel overwhelmed, exhausted and confused.
Reading your post from the "outside" I would say there are several red flags not to ignore.
Your son doesn't sound mentally healthy. First and foremost YOU need to find a smart, top notch, board certified Psychiatrist to see / evaluate your son.
This link is a good resource to explore:
http://www.aacap.org/cs/root/child_and_adolescent_psychiatrist_finder/child_and_adolescent_psychiatrist_finder
Second, you need to find a psychologist (preferably a PhD) - not only for your son, but for you. You need someone that can guide you, help you, support you and learn how to set appropriate / healthy boundaries for your son.
Right now, to me, your son sounds ill and needs your help and support. Personally, I would not send him back East, he may flounder, dabble in more drugs and who knows what.
Lastly, there is the wonderful organization called
NAMI ( http://www.nami.org/ )
They have chapters and meetings all over the US.
I urge you to call them for immediate support and guidance.
The most expensive / costly thing you can do is do nothing.....your son needs you now, and as overwhelming as it seems once you get into "action" mode, find a Dr. and get some good support in place you will begin to feel better - and so will your son !!
Take care of yourself, you are in a difficult spot, but it will get better, it really will.
Write back anytime, I check in with the board often.
((((((Big Hugs)))))))
-KathleenView Thread
It might worked better for your son. Every child is different.View Thread
Good luck to you. Stay strong.View Thread
I think that those of us who suffer from the disorder have a lot to learn from our caretakers and vice versa. You don't make any money by writing, my efforts are purely to advance our understanding.
http://bipolaratuva.blogspot.com
Thanks for your time!
-MontieView Thread
I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about five years ago. I've attempted suicide twice. I wanted to blame it on my mom because she is an easy target but anyone who's ever drawn a Punnett square in Biology knows that this is not the case. I grew up with a wonderful support system that was so good to me it proves that this disorder is genetic.
I have a blog, http://bipolaratuva.blogspot.com , where patients and loved ones can learn from each other. I would like to discuss this guilt further because I think you'll find that we don't want you to take the blame.View Thread
Have you tried calling an emergency IEP meeting to get more accommodations in place? Do you have an advocate that can help you when dealing with the school ?
If your son only sees the psychiatrist every 2-months, then I'd suggest you calling and getting an appt. sooner rather than later to discuss the school and aggression issues - something needs to be done quickly to help your son feel less stressed and the school needs to do more for your son when he is triggered.
((Hugs))
-KathleenView Thread
Navigating thru mental illness with a child is very, very difficult (but you know that already) - - You need support and guidance.
If you read some of my posts to others, you will see I always recommend the organization:
http://www.thebalancedmind.org/
(formely CABF)
They have been my education and lifeline in dealing with my (almost 12 y.o.) daughter.
Haldol is generally a good med, helps with aggression and rages. Here is an informative page specifically about it:
http://whatmeds.stanford.edu/medications/haloperidol.html
Not sure where in Louisiana you are, but there maybe a local NAMI chapter near by. Have you looked into NAMI yet?
Here is the link:
http://www.nami.org/template.cfm?section=your_local_nami
They maybe able to offer some support groups and info. for you close to home.
I'm sorry your son is suffering right now, please check out the resources I sent along.
Take care of yourself!!!
((((HUGS))))
-KathleenView Thread
http://www.childmind.org/en/speak-up-facts/
-KathleenView Thread
- Just wanted to throw out a few good reads for you in case you haven't heard about them yet.
One is: http://bipolarchild.com/
This is an excellent read with a lot of enlightening information.
The other is: http://www.ccps.info/
He has a lot of other good books and has been instrumental in me learning different strategies.
Take care!!!
-KathleenView Thread
He is now on Abilify (mood stabilizer in the antipsychotic class) and is great.
I also have heard that anti depressants can send bipolar kids into a dysphoric (or other) mania and this is precisely what I experienced with my son. It was by far the scariest two weeks of our lives. Anti depressants may be great for some kids, but for my son"026yikes! It was definitely the wrong chemical for his brain!View Thread
I hope your teen, has a really smart, board certified Child Psychiatrist doing the evaluation, because that is the best tool you can have under your belt to insure an accurate treatment plan and get your son stable the quickest.
Take care!
-KathleenView Thread
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