I think it's a great way of explaining it. That being said, your wife DOES wear her glasses when she needs to see, do you always take your medication/see a specialist for therapies designed to help you deal with your ADHD symptoms?
A good book for your wife might be "The ADHD Effect on Marriage" It really explains the relationship issues around ADHD and how the non-ADHD spouse reacts, personalizes the ADHD behaviors and helps them refocus those thoughts so the ADHD spouse is reposnsible for behaviors but IS NOt setting out to ignore and annoy the non-ADHD spouse.View Thread