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WebMD has decided to have all communities be 'self-moderating'. There are no more moderators. In some of the communities I have seen that inappropriate posts are not being deleted. There is a lot of bickering among members. Spam stays on the boards far too long before being deleted. New members are posting with rather radical ideas and trying to convince others that they are right.
WebMD is a public, world-wide site with the communities open to anyone. Without moderation I no longer feel safe posting here. I have enjoyed my time here and learned a great deal. I wish everyone in this community success in managing their health concerns.View Thread
When she asks me a question, it always turns into 20 questions, (or more)...It seems that if I answer her truthfully about her situation, et.....
why can't I drive?..
who said I couldn't live by myself?..
who says I quit smoking?...
what do you mean I was in the nursing home?....
then she gets more and more confused about the answers, hence more questions....I don't want to lie to her, because I wouldn't want to be lied to...,,
I moved from Florida to Indiana to take care of her so she could be at home and have better quality of life, not that the nursing home was bad, she just cried all the time about wanting to go home....
So I guess my question is....
Should I lie to G'ma, since most of the questions are not 'life or death' to keep her from being go confused? and she's not gonna remember anyway....
Feeling incapable in Indiana
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Here it is January 1, 2013. Unbelievable, huh? On this day, I write a letter to myself outlining what I hope to accomplish in the next year. At the top of my list - to get my new book, Support for Alzheimer's and Dementia Caregoivers: The Unsung Heroes into print. Then, at the end of the year, I re-read the letter to myself that I wrote the year before to see how much I actually .did.
Perhaps you'd like to write a letter to yourself. I hope you include doing one good thing for yourself each day as one of your goals.
Hope this New Year brings you peace and happiness,
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We have been fully decorated for over a week. Below is a picture of one corner of our living room with its new vent-free gas fireplace.
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Sometimes going over there as early as 4am, and it's still dark. I've tried distracting her with many different things and nothing works. If I physically try to stop her she gets very angry.
I don't know what to do to keep her from going outside in the dark. I don't think it's safe for many reasons. We live in a small town but there are still creeps around not to mention it's cold outside. I have alarms on the doors and I'm aware when she goes out but I cannot stop her. I thought about locks on the doors but I'm not sure.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Please help!View Thread
The interaction they showed between Adam and his father was very similar to my own with my father. In the show, the father confused Adam with his own brother. He would have periods of agitation and confusion and then revert to being lucid. Adam was under a great deal of stress dealing with his father and called it 'baggage'.
I feel exactly the same way with my father. Last night he called me and was upset about something that happened in his facility and started ranting about leaving and finding a different place. I tried to remain calm and explain what an excellent facility he was in but he just kept on, getting even angrier. Finally I just said "Dad, I have to go. I'll talk to you later." and hung up. This scenario is repeated about 2 or 3 times per month so I am used to it. It is still upsetting and leaves me wondering if I am doing all I can for my dad. After discussion with my wife I always realize that I have done all I can for my dad and he is extremely well cared for.
I guess I wanted to share this to show that this is so common and many people deal with a parent, spouse or other loved on who needs care due to Alzheimer's Disease or Dementia. There is comfort in knowing we are not along and others struggle with these situations as well. I felt it was extremely well represented in the TV show episode last evening.View Thread
I thought it may provide a distraction and cheer some of us up if I shared recent pictures of our 3 dogs in their new matching pajamas.
Rosebud is our 6 year old female Pekinese/Shih-Tzu mix:

Here is Buster, our 2 year old male Shih-Tzu and Midnight, our 10 month old female Chihuahua on me:

Here is all three dogs on my wonderful wife:

We also have four cats, but they won't stand still long enough for us to get any type of clothes on them.

I hope you enjoy.
Have a blessed and marvelous Monday, folks.
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Thanksgiving is just the beginning of this holiday season. If we can retain that feeling of gratitude for our lives even with the hectic days ahead, we will be giving ourselves the best gift of all.
Hope all goes well,
JudyView Thread
I hope you all get to enjoy time with your loved ones.

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I've been busy with the final edits of my new book, "Support for Alzheimer's and Dementia Caregivers: The Unsung Heroes." It will be released in 2013. Meanwhile, what and how are you doing?
Let us know,
JudyView Thread
Last evening I was reading about activity that one can do to help prevent alzheimers. The article stated that we get new brain cells every day. Now that I want to comment on it, I can't find it.
I'm wondering if the exercise, reading, learning, etc. applies to just prevention of alzheimers, or can a person with alzheimers grow and develop new brain cells and get better, brain wise, by doing these activities?
Ken, with his troubled eye sight, tremors, and moderate alzheimers, and diabetes, has really struggled and fussed about not being able to see and read. He has wanted the book "No Easy Day", by Mark Owen, since Mark was on TV talking about the mission that killed Osama Bin Laden. I got the book for him at the library. He immediately started trying to read it--propping pillows etc so he wouldn't have to hold the book. Finally he is sitting at the table, propping the pillow and reading the book. He sometimes has to read a paragraph 3 times before he gets it, but he is so interested in it, and talks about it later.
So, Is he growing and developing new brain cells because of this reading? Will they be replacing the brain cells that died?
Or would they be in a different area of the brain.
He is doing so well with his exercising that he doesn't use his cane anymore.
Thanks for anything you can tell me.
Kathy
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While community is a place to get to know your fellow members and experts on a deep and supportive level, sometimes folks just want to ask a question and receive an answer. That's what WebMD Answers is all about.
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Mom had cataracts in both eyes, her doctor rated her as a 10 on a scale of 1-7. Last Tuesday she had the first eye implant done, today was the first day she has noticed (& expressed) that she can see better such as the clock accross the room (didn't believe that it was 10:30am and she had just woke up) she could see the flowers outside in the garden (which she hadn't commented on for months.) The jury is still out (Dr. hasn't given us the verdict) as to whether he will proceed with the 2nd eye surgery tentaively schedule for early November. Mom is 85 years old and no longer expresses many pleasurers in her life. She shows little interest in TV (except for Music on PBS occasionally,) she no longer reads because of the lack of memory function. Mom still enjoys her food, sometimes I am astonished at the speed with which bananas and toast disappear from her kitchenette.
I have found that daily rides in the golf cart is something that gives her a sense of pleasure. It's open and the wind blows through her hair, we live in a community that is hilly and she likes the sense of speed we the cart picks up speed going downhill (it's electric and uphill is slow going for sure.)
It's frustrating to keep trying and to find so little that makes a difference for her. Working hard with little to show for it!View Thread
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