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You are right about how long the research process takes.
I am happy that there is an improvement, Hopefully, if the physician is chronicling this information, the physician could report the positive effects in the medical literature so that others may benefit.
I hope other family members keep a record just the way you have for the physician and others to see.
Thanks for keeping us informed,
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Bexacarotene needs to be researched with a double-blind study to determine how effective it really is in Alzheimer's. It It would be great if your mother could be part of such a study. It is the best way to determine whether or not the bexarotene is contibuting to the hopeful changes or is it a placebo effect - Often people will improve with a new medication even if it is a placebo.
Establishing the correct dose without causing unwanted side effects is always the goal.
I am glad to see that your mother seems better whatever the reason.
Do keep us posted,
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You are so sandwiched in between the needs of your children and husband and the needs of your mother. In my professional opinion, you have done everything a daughter can do for her mother. Alzheimer's is a cruel disease but it is important that you stay intact and not be ravaged by Alzheimer's the way that your mother is.
I suggest that you limit the victims of Alzheimer's by placing your mother in a memory care residence. Not only would she benefit by having people around her who know how to deal with her moods and behavior, but she will have people to relate to.
Often people with this disease say - don't put me in a nursing home - but in truth, they forget they ever say that and if they knew how their behavior was affecting their children and grandchildren, they would change their minds. Often, they do better in a memory care setting.
Alzheimer's is damaging your mother's ability to reason but both you, your husband and brother are able to reason. Use your good sense to look at the bigger picture. Get advice from the Alzheimer's Assn., 800-272-3900.
I lead support groups consisiting of the relatives of those who have placed their loved ones in a memory care facility. Get some help from those who know what it's like.
We feel for you,
JudyView Thread

Sounds like the family has been facing so much throughout this journey. Hospice is available for your Mom - the people caring, considerate and kind.
Not eating and drinking often is the way a peron's body starts to shut down. You not wanting her artificially fed is wise - it can be traumatic. I have read and heard that not eating or drinking is a painless, sometimes euphoric experience and part of the letting go process. It sounds like your mother is naturally entering this last phase.
Sending you courage and comfort,
JudyView Thread

I can understand how this sale is an emotional experience. It marks the end of another chapter. The fact that your Dad likes the new place is such a blessing.
I'm also glad that you ER experience was good and that the doctors there were on top of things.
You've been and still are a terrific son!!
Do something nice for yourself and your wife,
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Really enjoyed your sharing about your mothers. My mother passed away 23 years ago, before something like Alzheimer's could begin. She was a woman ahead of her time - employed full-time, full of passion and vigor, and alot of laughter. She was an inspiration for me. I've written an essay about her which might appear in a local newspaper -on the theme of how we become like our mothers in many respects - even those parts we want to avoid.
Hope everyone has a meaningful Mother's Day,
JudyView Thread

So glad you were there for your friend Ron. There are some geriatric physicians who make house calls. If he is on hospice now, the hospice staff should be checking up on him. Regrettably, the emergency room situation is not uncommon for those with Alzheimer's.
It's disheartening to know that many medical staff are so ignorant of treating people with this disease with the same respect that every patient deserves.
It must have been so aggravating for you to see him go through this, and it's great that you are there for him
JudyView Thread

What a shock this must be.
Please contact the Alzheimer's Assn, www.alz.org . or call 800-272-3900. They have support groups and people to talk to, along with tons of information that is valuable. Just because your husband has Alzheimer's doesn't mean that you cannot still have a meaningful relationship with him.
We welcome you to our community and hope to hear from you soon,
JudyView Thread

Feelings remain in Alzheimer's -. It's appropriate for him to feel melancholy, as you do.
My deepest sympathy,
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