my 81 year old father in law, recently had to put his wife back in a nursing home due to the 85 year old wife being aggressive and a danger to him. he lives in texas and we live in illinois, and he has came here due to fear that she is going to get out, or fear that he will once again go to see her, and just take her back home, when she cries.i had to take him to er last night due to chest pains, and after spending the night, and having stress tests done today, the dr. told us, his heart is that of a 20 year old, that he is just depressed and has acid reflux. any advice i can give him that will help him not feel so guilty, and something to make him see, that she has to stay where she is for her sake as well as is. and that it will get easier?View Thread
thank you judy. our dr here started him on prozac, and acid reflux meds. he is going back to texas next wens, and i will be calling his dr. there to make sure she keeps him on this,cuz it truly has made a big difference in him. he was only with this wife 6 years, but he is a man who beleives its love and his place to care for any wife he has had. i am checking in the alz. site for him so he can go and talk to others who r goiing thru the same. thank youView Thread
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