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RE: "I have anxiety attacks before going to the de...

If this is not allowed please delete it The name of the pill is Halcion Posted by Catswisker

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"scared of my panic"

Right now I'm in the worst place of my life. I have no job and I can't even imagine... Posted by whatevertoday

Right now I'm in the worst place of my life. I have no job and I can't even imagine working right now. I can't take the ridicule and bad treatment. I've become extremely suicidal due to pressures of dealing with people and my own deamons.

My anxiety is very high and I start to shake when I'm really nervous. I went to some National Alliance for Mental Health meetings and people saw how negative and suicidal I was. It was scary to see their reactions. They were telling me I should try for Social Security Disability. A social worker in town also said I should to get a "break" right now until I can get a little better.

So I did apply. Now I'm just waiting. I have convinced myself that if this doesn't go through I'm doomed and I will most likely have to end it. I don't want to but I know I can't handle the anxiety and panic and depression. The humiliation, the feeling like I'm a failure, etc.

I am facing losing my dog any day. She's very old and is really not happy. She's in pain and I can tell she is hurting. She has a huge tumor on her head near her eye. That tumor looks horrible. The vet said she's not ready to be put to sleep. She didn't eat good yesterday or today.

So, my doctor said I don't have to die just because my dog dies. But that's only part of it. I don't understand why everyone at my jobs always treat me so horrible. Its disgusting. I can't handle it. These are not minor things, its daily harrassment. I can't even begin to tell you.

I've been humiliated by my mother at a young age and she turned me away and gave me the silent treatment for nothing. She would give me the most dirty looks like she hated me. I had mean nicknames. So I can tell you that I no longer can take mean treatment by anyone. I have stayed away from family for a year now. I don't intend on going back. There's so much more, but who can explain it all.

I'm afraid to call SSD because I got a letter saying I was denied SSI. I don't know if they are the same thing. I'm literally acting like there's nothing wrong and I'm preparing myself for the worse. I haven't panicked to much. The day I got the letter was bad.

I feel like my life is over. There are no other options. I have no friends. When I lose my dog I'm going to flip out. She's almost 18 and she's been here my entire adult life so far. Part of me doesn' t want to suffer anymore. I want to live, but I don't know how to do it anymore. I seriously can't handle it anymore. Death sucks, but I'm convinced its my fate now.

I will lose my apartment and all my stuff if I can't pay rent. I've become empty. No fight in me anymore. I love my stuff..but I keep thinking it just stuff. Its so scary to be in the place that I'm at. I've had suicide ideation for 30 years and now I feel like I have the reasons to really do it.

I hate the thought of hurting anyone when I die, but they have all hurt me. I'll be at peace. People will talk but at least I won't be here to feel that negativity. Man, I've tried so hard to make a decent life for myself. But no dreams came true. Just getting my dog. Best day of my life. Now she's leaving me. Posted by whatevertoday

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"Early mornings..."

I'm 24 years old, in fairly good health. I am active at least (3) days a week at the gym,... Posted by Anon_9813

I'm 24 years old, in fairly good health. I am active at least (3) days a week at the gym, and for the most part I take very good care of my health. I don't drink a lot of sodas, sugary things... I rarely drink alcohol (yes, it is true), and I keep fairly good track of my diet.

I have been diagnosed with Acid Reflux disease, as well as social anxiety and generalized anxiety, and IBS. I currently take birth control, as well as zantac when my acid reflux acts up, and clonazepam every once in a while for anxiety.

Each day when I wake up early (6-7 am) for work, my stomach problems will occur. It's the same thing every morning when I wake up before 9 am.... I will wake up, feel extremely empty and hungry (my stomach will just growl and gurgle like crazy), and either before or after I eat breakfast, (which is usually just cereal or a PB and J sandwich) I would get stomach cramps and 50% of the time, diarrhea is a result. Well, it's either diarrhea or loose stools OR... I will feel the cramping/urge to go to the bathroom all morning long, and sometimes would be 3-4 times. This wouldn't wear off until afternoon. But what happens is, after I eat lunch on these days, my stomach feels off...like it's bloated. Not only that, I feel like there are fireworks going off in my stomach with the way it gurgles, and moves. It is horribly bothersome. It puts me on the edge of my seat every single day (I work in a quiet office), and it's not only embarrassing, but it's NOT NORMAL. I know I should not feel this way. It doesn't make sense. These dreadful feelings lead to me missing work a lot, and in turn, losing my job!! HELP...

And here's the thing:

Ever since I was layed off from my job about (6) months ago, and have had the privilege (if you would call it that in this economy) of sleeping in everyday until about 9:30 AM. Guess what? All my stomach problems magically went away. I could even stop taking my acid reflux medication! Explain that. I don't get it. Am I just allergic to the early morning?

I just recently got hired for a temp job full-time, first shift, and am now noticing these same problems return. This is awful, it makes it 10 times harder for me to go to work each day, and I can't live this way. It is hell.

How can I deal with this when I'm working a first shift job? Does anyone have any insight to what might be causing this? Or any advice as to how to deal with it?

I mean, my motto is, if your body is trying to tell you to stop whatever it is you're doing, it's natures way of letting you know that whatever you're doing to yourself is not ok. And screw the "that's life, you just have to find a way to deal with it" BS. Your overall health and well-being is more important than money people. I learned that the hard way. Posted by Anon_9813

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RE: "I feel like i'm going crazy"

Dear Cjs7dd (and anyone else), If you would like Dr. Farrell and our current... Posted by Byroney_WebMD_Staff

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RE: "Non-Benzo Anxiety Medicine while Diagnosed w/...

Sorry. Posted to wrong board. Posted by TrainMan57

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RE: "Can you take xanax and paxil at the same time...

I did for many years. Xanax is more for the acute and "flares" of anxiety while the... Posted by MagPrincess

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"in her 20's and almost driving"

I got my permit reissued a few months back... drivers ed in high school was nearly... Posted by Coastal_Mindset

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RE: "I'm confused about Xanax and Ativan. Please h...

Thanks for the reply. I saw the doctor today. He said for my particular panic... Posted by NotYetBeaten

Thanks for the reply. I saw the doctor today. He said for my particular panic problems, Xanax may be a better choice even though the duration isn't as long, the initial impact is a bit stronger than Ativan.

He also put me on another medication. It's one I've never heard of before. The drug is Lamotrigine. So far, I haven't found anyone who has used this med before, and I'm always nervous starting a new medication. One he also said I COULD try was Clomipramine. After doing some cross-examining on WebMD, I'm surprised he didn't simply prescribe it. What he did was write the name down for me on a sticky-note and told me to research it to see what I think, but he said he wanted to try Lamotrigine first.

I am fully willing to try the Lamotrigine, but at the same time, it almost sounds like Clomipramine might pinpoint some of my psych. issues more directly.

On Monday, I saw my psychologist. He did an annual re-diagnosis on me. Just by the questions he asked, it's possible that I really may not have JUST G.A.D, or generalized anxiety disorder, but Panic Attack Disorder. Wouldn't surprise me, as after I posted here, I saw just how many symptoms I have.

I like my new psychiatrist. He spent 35min. with me, as opposed to previous psychiatrists who would spend maybe 10-15min with me. He really talked to me and listened to what I said. He asked about obsessions, and was very understanding and compassionate when I told him about how I've been obsessing over the horrible things that happened to Jaycee Dugard, and how much it kills me inside to really know what happened to her.

BTW, here's what has been confirmed up to this point:

Obsessive Complusive Disorder
Major Depressive Disorder
Asperger's
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
Generalized Anxiety Disorder
Mild Social Anxiety Disorder
(Possible) Seasonal Affective Disorder

Thank you for the advice. Maybe the next time I get my meds refilled, I should request brand-name instead of generic. I remember how well Paxil worked back in 2002, but when my insurance changed and I started getting generic Paroxotine [SP>, it didn't do so well for me anymore. Also, suffering from chronic pain, I'm on Hydrocodone, and I've found that Qualitest and Watson-brand Hydrocodone work far better than Mallinkrodt [SP>. (Is it okay to mention pharmaceutical companies here? If not, my apologies.) Posted by NotYetBeaten

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"Long history of Anxiety"

Hello, My name is Chelsea and I am new to the discussion board. I am a 21-year-old female. I... Posted by cjs7dd

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RE: "Non-Benzo Anxiety Medicine"

Since Dr. Farrelll mentioned it, here's a link to the Depression Exchange ... Posted by Byroney_WebMD_Staff

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RE: "I know I have posted before..but would like y...

You have responded to me in the past, good memory :) In the future, I will look for a... Posted by babes0502

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RE: "Help: Sleep problem"

PS. Please excuse the grammar, as I typed it out real fast without re-reading :P Posted by philk86

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RE: "How does your anxiety make you feel"

Before I was diagnosed, for a weeks I'd have physical symptoms and then the mental... Posted by Spankyrae

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RE: "Bipolar and looking for recovery...?"

To which board are you referring; this anxiety board or another BP board? Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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RE: "I get really bad panic attack.."

If it seems that you need this MRA evaluation and you have problems with... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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RE: "I choke when I eat!"

Check this out. It cured my problem for a while, unfourtanately it came back. A ... Posted by VipDesigns

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RE: "Blaine from Anxiety and Stress Be Gone Said:"

You're right about exercise. See my new Exercise page on my website: ... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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Job Search and Anxiety

I know that anxiety plays a major role in job searching and interviewing, so... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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RE: "I'm really scared and need some advice please...

You've outlined many problems and one of them appears to be your weight which... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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RE: "Fear of being alone"

Yes, you can get help for all of this. First, even though you may not think... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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RE: "Delirium? Please read.."

I'm not sure what's happening and I'm wondering what your prescribing doc has... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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Video exercises online

I've added a number of simple, video exercises that you can do in your home... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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RE: "Dr. Farrell's website"

Very handsome--I love the new look. Very easy to navigate, too. Here's a... Posted by Byroney_WebMD_Staff

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RE: "Anxiety and Physical Symptoms"

Dear Ylili: Thanks for your reply. I will keep in mind what you have given in the way of... Posted by kell2010

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RE: "what the H is wrong? Anxiety or ? have you f...

LaBeauBelle i really appreciate your thoughts, its good to know i'm not alone! i hope... Posted by nwatergate

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RE: "HELP ME PLEASE!"

I am so sorry that you are having such a hard time. I've been there since last... Posted by ednaroberts1978

I am so sorry that you are having such a hard time. I've been there since last July so I do understand, and it seems we have a lot of the same symptoms during a panic attack.

It's frustrating and scary, and it's hard to tell yourself you are fine when the panic attack can mimic a heart attack. If you've had all of this checked out by the doctors, and everything has come back normal, try to reassure yourself that you are OK. I know this is easier said than done. As I was visiting the ER almost once a week because of these symptoms. I still get them occasionally, and they still scare me, but I've learned to tell myself that I've been checked out, and I know what's wrong with me.

I also have Fibromyalgia so I'm in pain all the time, and this contributes to the chest, back and arm pain that I have. It is also made worse when I'm anxious and my muscles are already tightened because of the flight or fight mode my body goes into.

Have you tried medications? Xanax is a fast acting med that helps stop the panic attacks before they become full blown. Antidepressants can also help. I would also suggest therapy to help you. The right kind of therapy can assist you in changing your way of thinking. When something like this comes on instead of trying to fight it off because it's scary and we don't want to go through it, try telling yourself that this is just a panic attack, it will pass.

The more we fight having one, the worse the panic attacks are. If we just acknowledge that we are having a panic attack it doesn't seem to be as horrible. At least this has helped me. My psychologist has helped me deal with trying to get some sort of control over them in order to get back to my life.

As for the nervous stomach that comes with it, I have that too. I get severe diarea when I'm having a panic attack and I don't feel like eating, when I do my stomach tightens up into knots.

I don't know if this helps you, but I wanted to let you know that you are not alone. Posted by ednaroberts1978

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RE: "trying to stay in present"

I've been there before. When my panic attacks first began I was so depressed and scared... Posted by LaBeauBelle

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"Dr. Farrell's website"

I just wanted to alert all of you that we've been redesigning my website and,... Posted by Patricia Farrell, PhD

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RE: "Effexor XR Withdrawal Symptoms"

You are so right about the not eating much.... and laughter and music makes you feel... Posted by Cjae130

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