I would highly suggest a professional. I would do some homework and find a really good (preferably female) Child Psychologist to help your daughter.
I would ask her pedi, talk to friends, call around and find a really good Dr.
When looking for my daughters psychologist, I called them on the phone and set up a visit with only myself at first, because I wanted to make sure she was a good fit for my daughter - - its totally fine to first "interview" the prospective Dr. before bringing your daughter in.
Good luck Mom, and take care ((HUGS)) -KathleenView Thread