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I have a 3 year old Son. He can speak A to Z, 1-10, can name everything from a picture book but there is no communication. He does not ask for milk, TV etc. He pulls us to the things and has heavy tantrums. He bangs his head when he is very angry. he started walking at 11 months and has reached other physical milestones. The only issue is that he does not speak. Is it Autism or simply a developmental delay?View Thread
I have a 22 month-old son that is not yet diagnosed with autism. But I do believe he is in the spectrum. He has had some motor developmental delays that became less obvious with OT, but he still has a great communication delay (both expressive and receptive). He was just evaluated by a Psychologist, Social Worker, Speech Therapist and a Doctor in an children's hospital and they said they could not diagnose him yet,but that he definetely needs speech therapy.
He makes great eye contact most of the times and understand simple commands, but he's is a little too obsessed with spinning toys and does some repetitive actions like opening and closing door or rolling bottles or any small object he finds (usually for about 1-3 minutes, rarely more than that). He does not understand complex comands, doesn't point and only now is learning how to wave bye bye, but he doesn't seem to actually know what it means. He also does not try to speak, and he makes only a few sounds like da da, ba ba, ca ca, ma ma, besides doing a "humming" sound.
So, the thing is... I am devastated! We talk to him a lot, read to him, try to show him pictures to see if he'll identify objects, but he just can't understand what we say so he starts crying and crying and does not want to play. When I try to get him to scribble with his crayons, he wants all of them at the same time and he won't scribble, he'll only want to roll them around with no purpose and when I try to take it away from him he throws tantrums. I just feel like dying sometimes, I have no idea about what to do to motivate him. Sometimes I feel like I'm being too pushy with him, but other times I don't know how firm I should be. If I let him do what he wants he will mostly want to roll things around, push buttons in toys or open and close doors.
How do you do in these situations? Any suggestions would be appreciated!View Thread
Erin Wilrigs
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Roosevelt University, Chicago
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1. Any suggestions on how to help him drink from a cup? He always puts his tongue on the inside of the cup. Any suggestions
2. Potty training?
Anyone who has experience with these two issues, I would love to hear from you.View Thread
autistic boy, my sister in law is having a hard time getting him coverage
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My family and I had the pleasure of taking part in an autism research study which we found incredibly rewarding. Conducted by the Weill Cornell Autism Research Program (WCARP), the purpose is to improve the understanding behind the genetics and brain bases of autism spectrum disorders (ASDs). It meant just one visit which only took three hours to complete. Personally, it made me feel happy and productive to be able to do even a little something to help find answers!
Every individual with whom we came into contact was incredibly warm, caring, and sensitive. I was truly struck by how kind and compassionate those involved were and how exceptionally they treated my child.
In exchange for participation, each family gets a $25 gift certificate, parking voucher, and short summary from the doctors performing the evaluation identifying where one's child is on the "spectrum". In addition (and from my perspective, most importantly), I received free admission to an all day, interactive autism symposium (the cost of which was $175 for the general public). I have to say, it would have been worth every penny! After all, how often do you get the chance to sit in a room with scientists and clinicians and have your questions answered? The good news is that there are already plans to hold another event in 2012 (details TBD), so anyone participating in the study will be invited to attend at no cost!
If you are interested in learning more about the study, the coordinator is Vivian Ojeda. She can be reached at either 212-746-3583 or by email at vio2003@med.cornell.edu. The study is being conducted at New York-Presbyterian Hospital in New York, New York as well as Hackensack, New Jersey (pretty convenient for anyone living in the Tri-State area!)
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I come here expressing concerns that I have actually had for quite some time now since my son was born. I have fought with myself and my inner instinct for a while. First of all he has always did a weird eye rolling thing....this is especially apparent when someone tries to give him attention in any way or talks to him. He doesnt do it as much with me, but with people that he doesnt interact with as much. He also does not like to be approached and hugged or cuddled unless he wants to do it on his own. He does not give kisses/hugs and turns his head to avoid eye contact. He does look me in the eyes at times but very short periods of time. He was saying words like "Thank You" but have not heard that in a month. He says "choo-choo" now. A lot of words I was hearing months ago I no longer here. He talks constantly but it is all mumble-jumble. He does play well with other children, however he "screams" very high pitched all the time if his brother comes near him. He walked and hit all his milestones on time. He does point to things and knows what I tell him.I am concerned mostly with the eye rolling as I'm not sure if this is neurological or autism? Thanks in advance for any similar stories/advice! I see his pediatrician on May 4 for 2yo well check and not sure how to approach him with this......he seems very non-chalant about things sometimes and I hope he takes me serious!View Thread
My son is verbal and very bright but lacks the ability to produce spontaneous conversation and doesn't fully understand what is being asked of him (slow processing). He is very emotionally engaging, affectionate, and playful. He doesn't mind being around other kids but he is not interested in playing cooperatively, sharing or communicating with them.
I keep searching for help on the internet but always find what I think are discouraging stories about 7 - 10 year old children who are not yet potty training and an abundance of behavioral issues. I know that these stories are true and that I need to face that fact that my child may have many of these issues... but I don't know how to do that right now.
Where can I find some positive support for parents of High Functioning Autistic children? I called the Illinois Society for Autism but they were mildly helpful. I would really like book or blog recommendations. I guess an encouraging word would help as well.
Thanks for taking the time to read my post.View Thread
At around 4 months of age I noticed that when you were holding him it was almost impossible to get him to give you eye contact. He would give good eye contact from the floor, changing table, etc. (really anywhere else), but not from your lap. Now he seems to be MUCH better about this. If he is tired or focused on something he won't pay attention to you, but otherwise he will look at you when talking, singing, eating,etc.
He does smile, coo, laugh, and likes peek-a-boo and loves to play. He plays with his toys well. He transfers toys from hand to hand, picks them up, rakes them, etc.
He sits up and can roll both ways. He reaches for his toys really well also.
He tracks the dog, cat, mom, dad, sister, etc.
Here is my concerns:
He sometimes will respond to his name and other times just ignore you.
If he gets focused on something he will NOT look at you.
He doesn't really participate in turn-taking conversation.
He does not babble ma, da, ba, etc. He squeals and ahhs, ahh-goo, sometimes ba, raspberries, etc.
I sat him in a water area by one of the fountains that spray out of the ground and he was so interested in the water...I couldn't get his attention if I SCREAMED.
He rolls both ways, but he didn't roll until the beg. of his 5th month, he rolled about 5-6 times for a month. Now he rolls tummy to back everytime he is on his tummy, not much back to tummy.
He doesn't seem to respond to other's emotions. If sister is crying he will laugh and smile at her. Or if I say "no" sternly to the dog or I am having a discussion where I am upset, he just smiles.
He likes to look in the mirror some, but other times he won't look at all.
So, I don't know. I am trying to STOP worrying and let this anxiety go, but I just keep getting this weird feeling. Maybe it is just his personality, or I am expecting to much for his age.
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I am a MSW student conducting research on how Asperger's disorder is viewed amongst the Filipino Culture.
How having a child diagnosed with Aspergers is dealt within the family nuclease of a Filipino family. How this diagnosis is viewed & stigma (if any) amongst family members and their Filipino community.View Thread
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My 4 yr old grandson has many many words!! but not that much on conversation. Does not ask questions except "Where is a certain toy?
My grandson had many words even as a 2 1/2 year old..and has therapy several times a week. Is it possible to have lots of words and never grow into conversations??? It is so heartbreakingView Thread
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