I am sorry you are struggling with this, it is hard to see your child struggling or unhappy.
In response to the discussion question and in agreement with Indiaguerita, yes, a doctor could help. Scheduling an appointment with his therapist or doctor to discuss your concerns and how to approach your son with your concerns would be helpful.
Can you ask your son how he is feeling about himself and his sexuality? Or would you feel more comfortable discussing this with him during an appointment with a professional?
"My alphabet starts with this letter called yuzz. It's the letter I use to spell yuzz a ma tuzz. You'll be sort of surprised what there is to be found once you go beyond Z and start poking around " - Dr. Seuss
Theodore Seuss Geisel, who wrote sensible stories out of nonsense words, would have celebrated his 107th birthday this week. Can you relate, trying to make sense out of nonsense, as you yuzz le through your day, going beyond Z searching for treatments and answers for your child(ren)? Young or old, diagnosis or not, we all can relate to Dr. Seuss.
Take some time this week and celebrate Dr. Seuss with your family -
Which Dr. Seuss book is your favorite and why? Sit down, read and laugh your way through a few.
Make Green Eggs and Ham for dinner.
Can you think of any other Dr. Seuss quotes you can use to inspire success in your child(ren)?