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I have a 10 year old son who was diagnosed with High Functioning Autism when he was 6 years old. He has made great strides since putting him into therapy, and he is now able to be in a regular classroom with almost no modifications! I'm very proud of him!
One area that I would love some help with is his issue with clothes. I'm not 100% convinced it's a sensory problem. I kind of think it's a mental hang-up, maybe totally unrelated to autism??
In kindergarten, he had no problems with clothes. Then one day he wore a pair of blue jeans that he didn't like and that was the last day he ever wore blue jeans again. Not even his favorite blue jeans....he hated them all!
In 1st grade he wore khaki pants everyday, some had pockets with flaps, some not. It didn't matter as long as it wasn't blue jeans. Then one day, out of the blue, he didn't like pocket flaps. So we cut them all off.
Through the years, the pocket flap issue turned into a pocket issue, so we had to find pants with no back pockets. A while later, suddenly he wanted no pockets at all. He pants wardrobe turned into sweat pants and warm-up type pants...with no back pockets of course!
Then the shirts were next. He's never liked tags on his shirts, but the same deterioration started happening with shirts after this pants ordeal. No collars, then no shirt pockets, then no embroidery, then no print at all. It was a deterioration that took a couple of years overall, but step of it always hit overnight. For example, one morning out of the blue, his favorite "Homework Machine t-shirt" was painful because it had print on it, even though just last week he wore it just fine, and voila! No more print T-shirts....ever!
So, today he's going into 5th grade and can only wear no pocket warm-up pants or shorts, and plain white T-shirts, and seamless socks. Nothing else, period.
I have been trying to get him to "practice" other clothes for a while now, and explained to him when he grows up and gets a job, I don't want him to be limited to the kind of job he can have by the kind of uniform he can wear. Also, going to church I make him wear something a little nicer. But, he ends up sitting on his feet and completely unable to focus.
What can I do to help him get over these clothing issues. I really think it's not sensory related as much as a mental hang-up. When I force him to wear a shirt with print for our 2 hours of practice, if I can occupy him with a fun enough game, he seems to forget he's wearing it. I just need this to turn into being willing to wear it without being occupied! His counselor says to ignore it and when he starts getting teased he'll start wearing other clothes. He doesn't care about being teased though - I don't see him falling to peer pressure on this one!
Thanks in advance for any help or suggestions!!!
Laura
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I feel your pain! And it seems like once we find something, it only lasts a short while and he doesn't like that either!View Thread

Some daycares are just rooms packed full of kids to play free-for-all, and that's just not a healthy atmosphere for someone who needs structure (or any child, I would think). See if you can find one with planned down time, and a daily schedule. Good luck!View Thread

I think you should look to the Autism Society for testing centers and have your grandson tested. It's likely a free test, and will last all day. Autism is a spectrum and all people have different severities, so there is not "one approach" that will work, so the counselors at the testing center will be able to help with a recommended therapy program.
One thing with my son is that he tends to use his autism as an excuse why he can't perform the way someone else can. I try to discourage that, and as a result he's really come to have some confidence in himself that even given his obstacles, he's able to succeed. It's certainly a daily struggle for all, but if you can keep his mind on the course of "I'm going to fight this even harder!" rather than, "I'm destined to fail so why try" that will be huge for him! I believe the Autism Society can help with job placement too, if I recall.
Good luck!! I hope your grandson finds some answers because he sounds like he has so much potential!View Thread
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