My name is Vincent -- I have recently discovered my wife of 17 years has Aspies' - yes things can be difficult, and she often does not understand the things I am trying to tell her in a non-literal way - well guess what - it doesn't work that way.
I am not trying to undermine the frustration of these folks who post their frustrations, but no matter how difficult things are - my wife is worth the fight. If we all fell in love with a person who spoke a different language - would not all of you make the effort to learn each others languages? In this case an Aspie can't learn your language - but they are a genius of their own.
Frances - Don't lose hope - I WILL NEVER GIVE UP. I am going to learn how to love even stronger than ever - my wife is worth it. I am going to do what it takes.View Thread