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At around 4 months of age I noticed that when you were holding him it was almost impossible to get him to give you eye contact. He would give good eye contact from the floor, changing table, etc. (really anywhere else), but not from your lap. Now he seems to be MUCH better about this. If he is tired or focused on something he won't pay attention to you, but otherwise he will look at you when talking, singing, eating,etc.
He does smile, coo, laugh, and likes peek-a-boo and loves to play. He plays with his toys well. He transfers toys from hand to hand, picks them up, rakes them, etc.
He sits up and can roll both ways. He reaches for his toys really well also.
He tracks the dog, cat, mom, dad, sister, etc.
Here is my concerns:
He sometimes will respond to his name and other times just ignore you.
If he gets focused on something he will NOT look at you.
He doesn't really participate in turn-taking conversation.
He does not babble ma, da, ba, etc. He squeals and ahhs, ahh-goo, sometimes ba, raspberries, etc.
I sat him in a water area by one of the fountains that spray out of the ground and he was so interested in the water...I couldn't get his attention if I SCREAMED.
He rolls both ways, but he didn't roll until the beg. of his 5th month, he rolled about 5-6 times for a month. Now he rolls tummy to back everytime he is on his tummy, not much back to tummy.
He doesn't seem to respond to other's emotions. If sister is crying he will laugh and smile at her. Or if I say "no" sternly to the dog or I am having a discussion where I am upset, he just smiles.
He likes to look in the mirror some, but other times he won't look at all.
So, I don't know. I am trying to STOP worrying and let this anxiety go, but I just keep getting this weird feeling. Maybe it is just his personality, or I am expecting to much for his age.
What do you think?View Thread

He definitely engages while on the floor, in his crib, on the changing table, etc. He will look make eye contact with your for minutes at a time when playing. He will smile at you and gets excited to see mom/dad/sister. He really loves to track his sister all over.
However, if I (mom) pick him up and put him in my lap to play with him or sing to him he will not look at me. He will look all over at the dog, his sister, etc. I will call him name and he just isn't interested. He looks all over. The concerns me. He is babbling some. He isn't a big talker, but he does squeal, raspberry, ahh, ooo, etc. I have mentioned these concerns to a few pediatricians and haven't gotten a big red flag response. I think it is just weird.
So, in your experiences with children with autism...do they EVER engage? Will they look at you sometimes but not others? Or do the ALWAYS look away when you talk to them? I have taught older age autistic children, but by then they have learned to be able to give some eye contact, so I don't think it is a fair comparison.View Thread

So, I get uneasy about it. He is 4 1/2 months. He has been making eye contact since he was born, but I noticed more recently that he will do what I described above. So, since he will make eye contact and he will engage and listen and stare at you are certain times, does this mean he has passed this milestone? Should I worry that there are times when he won't make eye contact?
Tonight I was trying to introduce cereal and he wouldn't look at me to save his life I am guessing it is because he did not like what I was doing.
I worked with autistic children and it is so hard not to put your own children under the magnifying glass. I have been really stressing over this. Can anyone tell me whether I should have any concern or whether eye contact with autism is much different.
Thank you.View Thread

I guess my main concerns or worry is whether he needs to always be able to provide eye contact and recognize familiar people/voices or if he does it most of the time or in certain situations is the indicative that he is doing just fine.
Thank you again.View Thread

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