WOW I have sooooooooooooooooooo much I could say on all of this. I will say I agree with alot of what you guys have said. Melly has a lot of my thoughts written though, thanks girl. So I for now, will play it safe and hit 'submit' heheView Thread
Debbie pooh pie I'm about to give you some hard love girl.
I too have Slik's personality. I have a brain (yes the did a Cat scan, its really in there) that cant hush up about the things I want/need/desire/crave/must/have to do. Now tho I have a body that says, 'biotch get over it'.
I say this with all the gently love in the world my sweet lil Debs. If your physical body can do it, you throw that motivation gear into turbo 6 and GO GO GO GO, get your arse off the sofa and dont look back! Heck take a long clean undies in case you never come back oh, and while you're out in the real world, stop off long enough to have ice cream for two, me and you. MUAH View Thread
I suffer from bipolar, PTSD, fibro and a few other conditions. This is just my thoughts ok ... I too take something similar to xanax but once a day then as needed. I only take more when absolutely necessary. You didnt mention ADHD but I assume that is why you take Adderall? Because I am on other meds I MUST have, my doctor and I opted for me not to take anything for the fibro since there is not a single drug that will 'fix it'. Does one doctor give you all of these meds? I too would not have been pleased had my dr just added! another like haldol. Maybe this is something you need to sit down and discuss with your doctor, all of your concerns and which meds you are on.
I am no doctor!!!! but it does seem like a lot of course I dont know to what extent your conditions are.
btw I have CFS and mirgraines which cause me all of the concerns you mentioned, slurred speech, out of it, thick tongue and loss of balance.
Good luck and I am sure others will have better thoughts who may be on some of the meds you are on, that I am not.
For those of you for whom I have addresses I hope to send NY cards. I am recovering from a concussion and have totally been out of it. Havent been able to be on here either due to that and we dont have a puter right now, just whenever I borrow a laptop.
I want everyone to know I sure do miss you guys and hope you have a Fab Christmas and a Healthy, happy, blessed New Year!
Hum, have you ever tried to discuss her fears/concerns when she is NOT acting this way? I know you probably dont want to stir the pot so to speak, if things are going well, but maybe that is the best time. Maybe there is a deeper reason she gets this way. Sounds like you two have been together for quite a while, maybe its just a state of unassurance she is going thru. Maybe there is an issue with herself, ie she has gained weight (a huge thing for women) that she could be experiencing hence thinking it effects how you feel about her?
As a female, I can only suggest making her feel appreciated when things are 'normal'; possibly approaching the issue while things are calm; thirdly, if/when she acts this way, dont respond. I agree with what you said about apologizing. If you are innocent, then why do so? Just let her know you dont know hat to say. "I dont know what it is you want to hear so maybe I should not say anything at all." type of comments. Silence sometimes makes the other see that they are being irrational.
Hi DizJ, hope you get everything done and enjoy your reading.
Greatings to all my peeps out there
mood: blahzay with a touch of smile
plans: shower (lol but it is an effort many days), need to do the floors and clean my desk. Depends on the energy level as per usual. Nothing very exciting going on, currently listening to the roaring of the wind here and expecting a trickortreater to knock at any time! its raing, cool and extremly roaring windy.
Hope everyone has an awesome evening, I will be enjoying some "Revenge" with popcorn later !View Thread