Hello. I really didn't know where else to turn for help. I have a 53 yr old boyfriend, of 7 years... who is an alcoholic, but there's something else wrong too.... I think he has some type of mental illness along with his addiction problems. He does not drink everyday, but is more of a binge drinker. He is unmotivated most of the time and although I have tried everything in the book to help him get a job, he is still not trying. I want to say he is just lazy, but I think he is severly depressed. I cannot get an answer from him as to what is wrong. He says he doesn't know. I live in central indiana and would like to know if there is somewhere I can take him for evaluation. He has no money, no insurance and is not on SSI. No means to pay for help and I honestly am tapped out trying to support him. Can anyone give me suggestions or where I can go? I just can't give up on him yet.... Thank youView Thread
Thank you for your kind response! I will Google NAMI to see what comes up for my area. (never heard of them, so thank you) I have attended numerous Alanon support groups... but can't get him to go to AA. I will also try to google hospital for the indigent. NOt sure if I can get him to go but I will try. Thank youView Thread
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