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I had a lumpectomy in July with two lymph nodes showing positive I have Stage 2 estrogen positive BC. Have been undergoing chemo since 8/31/12.View Thread
One is as though nothing is a miracle.
The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Albert Einstein
As to feeling down or sorry for yourself, let me assure you that is OKAY!!!! Tears help wash away the bad feelings that tend to visit us every once in awhile! It's okay to cry and to scream and to curse the fates! Honestly, we all do this from time to time!! (And it isn't always because of cancer...We vent and have pity parties from all sorts of bad hands we are dealt!) The important thing is not feel guilty about feeling sad! And equally important is to limit the time for your pity party!! Feeling sorry for your self only is effective when taken in small doses...Any more than that and it becomes toxic!!
If you find that you are more often sad than not sad...Or going along in neutral... it is time to let your medical team know about this! You may need an RX for some anti-anxiety drugs. You needn't be on them forever, but they certainly can help anyone thru a bad period. Many of us have been helped and feel much better for doing so.
So, please come back and share this journey with us....We've been there/done that and do share much! It helps to be with others....You will be amazed at how often we laugh!! And you will too!!!
Blessings.
RachaelView Thread
One is as though nothing is a miracle.
The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Albert Einstein
May all those involved find a way through,...
My heart breaks for all!
Blessings and Peace.
RachaelView Thread
JohnView Thread
I see Dr. Dreamy and am loaded with my questions. I have them all typed out---double spaced them so have room to write his answers. I hope and pray he can take over my care. Seems as tho, I have ran out of Drs in our local area. Nothing like " burning ALL my bridges". LOL.
Anyone have a ladder handy???? Most of our rivers are running pretty full due to all our rain so need lots of ladders to replace the bridges. Leave it up to me to mess things up.---Again.
The consensus around here is most of the members in my support group are not fond of this new Dr. Here I thought I was the only one who didn't like his bedside manner. UGH. At least I have a plan of action. Most of the others have to take what they get as traveling is more difficult for them. Not Fair at all.
I am a little nervous cause I do not want Dr. Dreamy to turn me down but just don't know how specialized he is. He is also an Internist so hopefully he can order my scans in a timely manner. MY timely manner that is!!!!!
At least, I know he will listen to me. I worked darn hard the last 6 months in getting a good patient---Doctor relationship going. Plus I do respect his knowledge. I am sure he isn't going to Blow me Off like Dr. Iceberg did. LOL. Thanks Judy, for that lovely nickname for him. Fits him to a "IT"...... In fact, I almost called him that at my support group. Thank goodness, I caught myself in time as some of them do like him. UGH.
O.K. I am rambling. Sorry about that. Just hate these Nerves!!!!
Wishing all of you the very best. We can all do this as we are very strong women. We are "Warriors"!!!!!
"Nervous Nelly" in WA. state.
JanView Thread
I'm new here. I don't even know that i should be posting here as i have not been diagnosed with breast cancer. However, i'm not sure where to turn at this point. I found a lump in my left breast back in September. I'm only 34 and i know the statistics and chances are low that it's cancer. I also stopped nursing my son about 6 months ago. I wasn't really worried at first, but finally at the end of november i made an appt. with my doctor and he felt the lump as well. I had the ultrasound done last Friday (Dec. 7) and the sonographer told me to expect to have results in a week. It's funny because i was perfectly calm about all of this until the u/s and now i feel like a nervous wreck. I did see a few things on the u/s, but of course i don't have a trained eye. I keep thinking that the u/s tech, that while she can't diagnose anything, is probably able to recognize when there's a problem and if she were concerned she would red flag it for the radiologist. So, the fact that i haven't heard anything is probably a good thing...but the anxiety is getting the better of me.
So i was interested in knowing from others how long after the u/s that you got the results. Wouldn't I have heard by now if it was something to be concerned about? Sorry...this is just my anxious rambling.View Thread
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The bottom line - port placement next Monday, PET/CT scan on Friday, first chemo on Dec. 26th, staying on generic actos because Dana Farber had a clinical trial using that combo and the oncologist thought it was a good idea. It will be weekly for 3 weeks then a week off, rinse and repeat. PET/CT again in 3 months.
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ThanksView Thread
Sorry I haven't been on here much lately. I have been reading and wishing all the best to each of you.
Dec 10th saw my new Onc.Dr. It was only the 2nd time I had seen this guy as he took over for my wonderful caring Dr that is no longer with this clinic.
He informed me that: Due to the fact my rare cancer (Angiosacroma) was very tiny and they removed my breast therefore after 18 months, I was cured!!!! UGH. He only wants to do CT and/or PET scans once a year to monitor me. I was LIVID!!! He informed me they didn't know that much about my rare ca and that every Dr had their own protocal on monitoring this. In other words I took this as quit wasting his time and he wasn't about to find out any info on this cancer. This from a Cancer Dr.
Now I ask you wonderful ladies, Would you have confidence in this Dr???? I don't think so!!! Talk about having to be our own advocate on our journeys. YIKES.
Made an appt with my PCP and outlined my plan of action. He really laughed and said "I totally agree with you!"
My plan of action is: See my lung Dr (Dec 14th) ask him if he will monitor my care and order scans on a timely manner. Like every 6 months for 3 yrs is what my research says. His specialty is also Internal medicine. If he will do so----then I am going to by-pass the Onc Dr part of this for the time being. Right now, all I need is to be monitored to see if this crap is going to show it's ugly head anywhere else for the next few years.
If he can't do this for me---then I also have an appt with the Rad Dr that dx me in April 2011. She told me if I ever needed questions answered or just to talk to please call her. Hense the appt on Jan 7th. She was so nice and I felt she really cared about me.
The reason I am posting this is so ALL you ladies will be aware that you do NOT have to stick with a Dr you do not have confidence in.
However, I find myself running out of local Onc Dr's. I don't think I have burned all my bridges but darn close to it. LOL. It seems like all the good caring Dr's are leaving our local area so fast---that Google can't keep up with them. LOL. If need be I WILL travel to Seattle to a Cancer and Research Center. It is about 100 miles away but I AM going to take care of ME!!!!
I was so livid and angry to think this Dr took up my time just to tell me He didn't know much about this rare cancer. Brother!!!!!
If any of you have any more ideas on what I should do Please post and let me know.
I am so thankful I know a little about the medical field and can figure things out for myself. So now I am going for a Fifth and Sixth opinion and will continue until I do run out of Doctors. LOL.
Thanks for listening to my ranting and raving.
JanView Thread
For me, a cup of super hot coffee and and "unasked for" hug from the kids does the trick every time.
How about you?
Haylen
p.s. That's my almost 8 year old who made her first pot of coffee for my husband and I on Sunday. She was so proud! And yes, that's a 15 year old Mr. Coffee that is still chugging away...
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on the 13th December im due to have a sentinel lymph node biopsy, and my son who is four has just come down with a cold. If i catch his cold will i have to cancel my surgery?
thanks
JoView Thread
Than my chemo doctor told me that if I started to take ANNASTROZOLE!
She told me that my cancer had decreased from chemo and radiation therapy! Than she told me that the hormone pill would do the same thing as the chemo therapy ! But when I got on it! It made me feel crippled because it cause's really bad stiff joints in the body! Than it also caused high cholestrol and it also gave me really bad hot flashes too! So I quit taking it! And since than I feel like my oldest self again!View Thread
17 days and counting - wow!
Official NORAD Santa Tracker
p.s. NORAD is the North American Aerospace Defense Command - doesn't sound like a very "warm & fuzzy" office so it makes this even more awesomeView Thread
Click the link below to read more about the study that is expected to change the way doctors prescribe the drug:
Longer Tamoxifen Use Helps Breast Cancer Survival
HaylenView Thread
Ok here's my issue and if it sounds kind of familiar to someone, please let me know. I don't have insurance, but I'm working on it and I need to know if I should get this checked our first--or after my gall bladder surgery--which I should have had a year ago!
I havne't had a pap since my son was 1 or 2--he's now 7. So I haven't had a breast exam since then either. I had been more concerned with keeping my husband sane and healthy for quite some time. (It was at this point the my hubby was booted out of the military for a heart condition--not retired so I didn't get to keep health insurance) I did do monthly breast exams for quite a while and at one point I felt a tiny bump to the left of my left breast about the size of a pin head. It didn't always show up during it, so I just thought fibroid or fiber or something. Then I felt it two months in a row but slightly larger than I remembered--I started feeling every day--I was going in sane. SO I QUIT! I couldn't worry hubby, my glabladder started acting up and I couldn't have that checked because hubby was out of work, It was a comedy of errors. Either way my sanity dictated I quit freaking out.
About 2 months ago I realized my left breast was feeling fuller--not full of milk or anything, just it was rubbing against my arm when my arms were by my side. Sort of swollen. And it hurt. I had just recently bought a bra--so I attributed it to that. Then it hurt no matter what bra I wore. Not really hurt, just "man that's annoying" hurt. So I did a breast exam. That pin head--is now about the size of a navy bean. it is always in the same place, though it does "rock" if I'm feeling around.
I can't tell if it's an honest to goodness Holy Crap Batman lump, or if it's a lymph node that is swollen. As it is closer to my armpit than say my nipple. but it is definitely in the tissue along the side of my breast where it hits the underarm area.
I know 99.99995% of you are going to say go get seen--And I WILL!! i'm just wondering if this sounds familiar or if it's a "huh, that's an odd location for it" and maybe let me breath a sigh of possibly "lymph node' relief. (Even if it's a lymph node, I know it needs checking because it's been swollen for so long). I just need to know if this should be my priority--or the 2-1" gall stones I was diagnosed with last year and that I'm terrified will try to leave my gall bladder.
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Winnings? Well, on Saturday I had a couple of good hits - $400 and $275. After that, there was nothing to speak of and the casinos were not giving up much of anything. I think we saw one hand-paid jackpot and that's it.
And now I am sick...sinus infection from the cold that has had me in its grip since before Thanksgiving. I had a course of antibiotics on hand so I started taking them this morning. Good call as I am running a slight fever. Geez, I didn't need that! I didn't sleep well in Vegas because it's so dry there and I had a crappy cough. But I have a nice bottle of cough syrup with codeine that is making a big difference. Better living with pharmaceuticals...lol!View Thread
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