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I have gained about 25 lbs post chemo, rads and full hysterectomy. It seems easy to lose 5 lbs and then nothing else happens. Has anyone been succesful at loss and if so how? For lent I gave up eating between meals, except I only allow a piece of fruit or veggies. Please help or I may turn into a carrot!!!View Thread

I have gained about 25 lbs post chemo, rads and full hysterectomy. It seems easy to lose 5 lbs and then nothing else happens. Has anyone been succesful at loss and if so how? For lent I gave up eating between meals, except I only allow a piece of fruit or veggies. Please help or I may turn into a carrot!!!View Thread

I was suppose to start the arimidex starting 9 months ago but with everything I read women have problems like you spoke of and bad body aches I've decided against it. I lost almost a year of my life to surgeries and treatment I don't want to be miserable for 5 more years. How are you feeling now since you stopped?View Thread

I was traveling buy air and I went thru security I relized that my drivers licence's picture did not look very much like my new post chemo short tight curly head of hair. They really looked at me and than said OK and away I went. But the next week I was opening a bank account and had to get out the photo ID. Again you could see an eyebrow raised and the woman said cheerfully "did you get a new hair style?" I blurted out "no I had chemo". Well the look on her face was priceless! But I did get an extra "gift" for opening the account. She tried to give me the "pink" toolbelt but I went with the cooler.View Thread


Yes you do have to kind of take charge over your hair loss. I had mine cut short but when it was really falling out I shaved my head. The place where I got my wig said they shave people's heads all the time. I chose not to do it there I felt ashammed I guess. Didn't want anyone to see me like that. I shaved it the night before I went for 2nd chemo. I did do it at midnight. So I woke my husband up and told him he said "that's nice" and right back to sleep. Thinking back maybe I should have just given him "shock" when he woke up the next morning. And you feel more in control when you can do something yourself. Because right now things to be whirling!! all around you.View Thread

I know EXACTLY what you mean. I had 4 chemo's and 35 rads plus full hysterectomy last year. New normal is what life is but you make it the way you feel is best for you. And new normal is everyday for the rest of your life. It means we don't take anything for granted. Life is not as carefree as before. You have had a terrible thing happen to you. You have chemo and feel ill and maybe don't do too much for a few days and then if you do feel better your bloodcounts go low and they tell you to not go out too much. If you have to go to a store with a shopping cart you really don't need to go there and church don't shake people's hands or miss. this week all together. God will understand:) Doctors would tell me I was too angry and try to take each day as it came. It was not until 1 year later that treatment ended and my mamo was clear and bloodwork was good that I put this all behind me. But none of us forget the day we got the bad news and this friday it is the day 1 year ago I had my first chemo. I'm sorry that in the next few weeks your hair will fall out its not easy for any of us to be bald. Almost 12 days the hair starts coming out, have you ordered a wig yet?? It's too cold for only a hat.
If you feel like pouring out your heart I hope you have someone you can trust that will let you have a shoulder to cry on and tell you no this is not fair for you or anyone to go thru. Make sure you get good pain medication for those bone and joint pains can get worse. You need not suffer thru anything more than you have to. Try talking with the nurse's who do the chemo treatments they are wonderful...........they know more than the doctors.
Things is some respect things will get worse before they get better. I was lucky that my husband went with me to my treatments. Afterwards we went to lunch and a trip to the "Coach Outlet" for whatever I wanted. I now hope that I will only go there with girlfriends for fun and not after any treatment. I only mean treat YOURSELF to something you deserve it! Buy flowers eat a whole chocolate cake whatever...
This cancer is about you----do whatever you need to do to get thru what seems like a huge mountain in front of you. Make the climb one step at a time.
Take careView Thread

I had put off my mamo and doctor appointments for about a month I was so nervous about going. My husband went with me. All tests were normal and they said I'm as good as I can be. No new tumors found. I am considering the arimadex I might start it when I'm ready. When I left the hospital I felt finally the cancer that took over my life 13 months ago is in the past "been there done that!!", don't look back, and pass go and collect $200. The fear and anger I felt for so long is better, a lot better.
To anyone who is just starting out, this has been a crazy long journey that I thought I would not make it thru both physically and mentally. But I did with smiles and tears some good days and some not so good. But I did make it thru. I wish my Dad could have been here to share this good news, he passed away one month ago. He cheered me on the whole way and "pushed" me thru some days.
If anyone asked what can they do to help just answer "Pray"View Thread

Sorry to hear your having such a tough time. But you don't have to feel tough every minute of everyday. I can say that I had angry feelings about the same time as you it seems almost normal to have those feelings. I thought I was stressing everyone one out! Why was I taking on those feeling and putting them onto myself. I have finished treatment after 10 months there are days still that are tough. But I will tell you just a month ago my husband said the worst part of this cancer was having to watch me go it. Seeing me bald, feeling like crap and wanting to go back to my life before cancer was heartbreaking for him.
I hope you don't have too many more treatments they are harder each time emotionally where friends or family may think it gets easier to get thru since you've done it before.
Keep in touch with us it seems hollow to say but there is a light at the end of this dark tunnel.View Thread
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