Hi buttons13,how are you ? Hope all is well hun. How is the pregnancy going? Sorry I have not been on for about a month. I just felt so alone. The boards were pretty quiet. And the people who I got closest too, like yourself have busy lives and were not able to get on as much. I felt alone. I just took a break from everything, here, from trying to conceive from it all. My BF till this day has not done the SA. I don't know if I will ever get pregnant. I am just pretty bummed. I have been thinking about maybe next month trying again but let see, what happens. I have not even called my RE's office or nothing I just stop going. The last time they seen me I believe was 2/28/14 lol almost two months already.
Please let me know about you. How is everything with you. Please fill me in with all the details.
I am so sorry hun...But it's not over till it's over..Hold on to faith and hopfefully with the grace of God everything will be just fine. Keep taking your supplements your aspirin...bed rest is a must. Other than that. How is the baby's progression going..size and fetal heart rate ect. Try not to stress and I know it's difficult hun...but it will only make matters worse. Just pray, pray, pray. I don't even know your name so I can say a small prayer for you. Take care be well...Keep me posted. Nothing new for me either. Still waiting
Miss you...take care my friend .....hope to hear from you soon.View Thread
Hey glad to hear from you. I missed you, I really have. I know you are very busy and I appreciate your efforts to try to stay with me thru your pregnancy. Sounds like so far so good. How did your your doctors appointment go?
As for not much of anything right now. I have done all my test my biopsy came back normal with the exception of some inflammation I asked if this was a big deal he said no, but sometimes it can be a cause for miscarriage.. so he put in antibiotics to be safe. I am so stressed I know the doctor is being thorough but he wants to do every test in the world before actually starting to help me out with having a baby already he really hasn't found anything except that me and my bf are a match so I need to be put on special meds just for that so he knows that. So what is the delay ahhhh I wanna scream. Speaking of my bf, no he has not done the SA, go figure.
I have no knew updates...so please keep me posted I miss you..it gets lonely on these boards View Thread
Glad to hear the cramps are settling in. I know early pregancy is frustrating and sometimes even scary (in our cases specially). Specially those first 3 months or so, but try not worry stay positive, and do everything the doctor tells you. I know you just want the months to go by lol. But in due time, everything will be fine. So you get really cold during pregnancy? Hey as long as you and the baby are healthy. I know my friend had to have a cup...all she did was spit...Ewww!! lol during her pregnancy she as producing excessive saliva. Poor thing...
Yes I wish he would be coorperative..He is so difficult...I am getting frustrated, I want everything to be done already. And to make things worse my friends daughter is pregnant and she was not evern trying. I am happy for her but it just makes me think..Why is it so difficult for me.
Wow!! So no relations for the whole pregancy...your husband might get a little grumpy lol..but oh well.
I am already on day 3 of my cycle I gotta call the doctors now. To come in just for a prescription...bummer...all these appointments for the most simplest things....
Soon you will hold your new bundle of joy Hopefully I too soon will follow in your footsteps
I am feeling good after the test, it wasn't too bad at all. I thought it was gonna be alot worse. I just felt a little pinch and have been spotting on and off since..the biopsy also made my period come before time it came today and I was not supposed to get it for at least another 3 days...My bf has to get his SA done asap. He's being so difficult about it tho. Yeah yea I'm gonna do it, so he says and I am still waiting. The doctor says I have to call and come in days 3-5 of my period to do the next step.He will put on birth control for about 7-10 to shock my ovaries. I don't have a alot of money and this doctor I have to make an appointment for every little thing. He just wont give the prescription and say hey on days 3-5 of your period take the the birth control pills. I have to make another appointment just to get them Either way my bf has to get with it. What's the big deal to go in a cup. I have litteraly had to spread them (excuse my language) for the last 3 weeks. With vaginal U/S, saline water in my uterus, and just lastly this biopsy...This whole month I have been poked and prodded by the doctor and his staff..I know it's necessary..but come on you can go in a cup..I just wanna scream sometimes. Sorry I am venting.
I am glad the cramps have gotten better. Just try to take it easy and even abstain from sex until you see the doctor. You know we don't have normal pregnancies we are hight risk. That's just my personal opinion tho Everything will be fine I know it. I can't wait to hear what they tell you March 4. I am sorry you had to experience such a horrible ordeal after having your baby via c-section. But that can easily be fixed hun...find a good doctor, don't go back. And if you don't like this doctor and staff, change him too you are early enough that you can go ahead and do that and try going to another hospital. So don't be anxious..Okay..you are going to be just fine
I will pray for you....so please pray for me friend.
Hi hun how are you? How are you feeling? How are your cramps? I have heard many women get them and its perfectly normal as long as there isn't any bleeding. I am sure you will be fine and with the grace of God this will be the best pregnancy ever. I am very excited for you, hoping I am equally blessed.
Tomorrow I go for my last procedure the biopsy. And hopefully get on meds that I need and the booster shot so that I can have a baby already. Can't wait to get this last test over and done with.
As far as his family they don't understand infertility. Neither did he really...and the fact that he is 6 years younger doesn't help a bit. He does not have children of his own and his mother desperately wants grandbabies..so they can be a little insensitive...I am praying I can give him babies( I really want another baby too) if not I don't wanna think about what will happen. I am going to remain positive for now..but my situation sucks. Hoping for a better year and good news in the months to come.
I will keep you posted with my test results...I can't wait to hear from you my friend...By the way when is your next doctor's appointment?
So nice to hear from you. Next tuesday on the 18th I go in for the biopsy. I stopped the Clomid on my own for now. I am now going to another doctor to run all these special test. Not the one who gave me Clomid.I still have pretty much two months left. Maybe I will try for cycle days 3-7 if I do restart. The only issue I see is that me and bf have matching HLA..which means we are genetically similar so I have to go on meds for that. What are the chances lol...but I did not tell him but he's dad has put stuff in his head that are not true. I asked the doctor he says it does not cause birth defects it just causes miscarriages..but if I go on meds it will be ok...so let's see what happens.
Let me ask you something did you have menstrual cramps or feel like your AF was going to come on? When actually you were pregnant...I am curious.
My fingers crossed for you..wishing you the best...please pray for me hun and I will for you..by the way my name is Raquel...what is yours? I consider you like a friend who knows maybe we can have our babies around the same time if I do get prego soon...
Congratulations hun. I am so happy for you. I know it's nerve racking I don't blame you, just try to relax please. Everything will be ok..Just take your medicines and baby aspirin as you are suppose to. Try not to do anything streneous, think positive and everything will be ok. Me I would wait also until a little further along to tell anyone.
As for me I am still testing...I have one more test to do before I can start trying again. The doctor wants to do a biopsy just to check. So far all my ultrasounds and bloods have came back good the doctor says. Maybe I should have kept on the Clomid I was just so disappointed with myself.
So tell me the only thing you did was take the Clomid days 5-10? Tell me exactly what you did please. Maybe there is hope for me.
Please don't be gone too long..I missed you and Congrats again honey wish the best. Hoping for a little miracle of my own View Thread