Hi, been to clinic today.
They've agreed to VBA2C!
I can't believe it!
I requested a new team and they are really supportive said I had researched well and clearly understood all the risk of of a c section and VBA2C and they understood my reasoning. We made a birth plan!
It basically says it happens naturally and any sign of risk eg fetal dips then straight for section but I totally agree better safe than sorry.
I go for a growth scan in 2 weeks but everything seems to be going extremely well, so I know it's pessimistic but I'm waiting for the hiccup but there just doesn't seem to be one this time! It's really surreal.
I'm so so sorry things aren't working out for you. I think of you almost every day. I am a firm believer in Jesus works in mysterious ways and I'm sure whatever happens will be in his plan.
I can totally comprehend the strain on your relationship. It's so hard especially when he appears unsupportive in respect of not doing the SA but then the pressure is all on you to take the hormones and feel all crap and have all the test done.
Think u did right to take a break give your body and your relationship time to heal.
I know how blessed I am considering this was out final round being given to us before having to restart the test and try injections etc. and to be honest I think we would have had to do the same and have a break cos it was really messing with my head.
We have yet to buy a single thing for the baby, choose manes etc! Just can't bring myself to do it yet cos I keep expecting something to go wrong!
I think I may go buy a bag tomorrow, to pack a few things just incase. Feel so nervous and happy at the same time!
They agreed to a sweep at 37week if I get that far and then I can stay at home! Whoch means for the first time ever I can be at home for the first contraction, to wake my hubby etc, to have that panic drive to the hospital!
It's going to be like having a baby for the first time ever.
It's so strange to think about!View Thread
Hi been waiting to contact you as waited for my scan n consult.
My scan went well. Placental attachment greatly improved. The sonographer was surprised to see me back cos he thought the baby wouldn't have survived after the terrible scan at 8 week. At the time he said it was 50/50 either way but clearly he meant much less.
I'm almost 24 week now, my consult didn't go too good. Had 2 previous emergency c sections and now they trying to push me into another.
I really want VBA2C but it's like banging my head against a brick wall.
The last section left me in a horrific state but they say having the scar split open is much worse if it did happen.
I don't know what to do for the best.
I still have yet to buy anything for the baby. I'm still terrified that something's gonna go wrong. I didn't find out the baby gender either.
I have lost a lot of weight and weigh half a stone lighter now than I did before conception and that's nothing to do with diet and exercise as I don't do half the exercise I did prior to conception which just goes to prove my weight gain is hormonal.
I believe I was an American 6-8 and now I'm 6 months pregnant and still fit comfortably in a 6-8! Work that one out lol
Baby movements are much better but have lost all feeling of urge to go to the bathroom for my bowels. I think it's to do with all the internal scaring from the previous ops
But other than that I feel really well.
How's things for you? Have u started back on the meds or are you having a break.
I genuinely know how hard it is for you and pray for you every day for god to bless you with a baby. I know the longing for a child whether it be your 1st or your 10th is hard for any women.
Hi, how's things going?
I'm almost 10 weeks now but feels like a life time. Things have settled down and go for another scan April 16th so fingers crossed everything will be ok.
I'm living on pain killers really suffering with my neck have no idea why or what I have done!
Still getting the sickness feeling but not as frequently.
I'm so tierd usually on bed for 8, which normally I'm a midnight at least kinda person and could live on a few hours sleep but not anymore!
I try not to leave it long but it's just so hard feeling so rubbish.
Have u started back on the clomid and injections yet?View Thread
Well I'm absolutely gutted. Been holding back the tears. Been told it's 50/50 for the pregnancy to progress due to a large haemorrhage superior to the pregnancy. Although the baby seems attracted at the bottom, it could go either way. I am 8week 3 days.and there's nothing more they can do to help, only wait and let nature take it's course in the hope that this baby is a fighter.
Hi how's things going for you? How's the test result gone and has you partner done the SA?
We all well, been the school holidays here so been entertaining kids! And now we're moving to the country side too probably in the next few week so life is very hectic and trying not to do much is becoming impossible!
I will try my best to get updates from u but I think u understand it'll be hard till we're settled!
But I promise I'll do my best
Hope to see this through with u to the end of your pregnancy
Have u started on the new meds yet other than the pill?View Thread
Men can be a pain in the bum! Since you've invested so much you'd expect him to want to help and give a little
As for the dr, I'd ask y he couldn't just give you the prescription , that seems like a waste of everyone's time. My local dr does telephone appointments for non urgent things so I tend to use that service! Save a a lot of time!
I'm feeling good, I'm just extremely cold today. Hope it's not another cold pregnancy!
Last time I wore thermals in the middle of summer with thick jackets!!
Cramps are settling more and more. We have to abstain for the full pregnancy! We are not allowed at all, I'm too high risk!
Seems to be dragging and taking for ever! Not even 6 weeks yet and I'm ready to be full term!! Lol
It's strange moan to actually get pregnant and then I just want to be big and nearing the end, but think that's more for the fact that I want the healthy happy bundle in my arms!View Thread
Hi how are u feeling after the test? Was it uncomfortable.
Try not to panic about the future I'm sure now you got specialist help that u will be pregnant in no time.
Cramps are settling but I'm very tierd, if I do the housework I'm having to sit down especially with. Ironing, it gives me terrible hip n backache.
I am really not doing that much at all!
I go to book in on 4. March. I'm a bit anxious as I'm using a different dr and hospital after the last one left me in a terrible state, staff spoke to me in a terrible way and held off, and failed to give me proper pain relief leaving me in agony for hours. I was crying in pain after the c section.
It was horrendous
Just to clarify last month u had no ovulation, u took a tablet to make u have a bleed then u started another round of clomid?
Is that correct? If so the probability is that u did ovulate, but when you were withdraw bleeding.
Last cycle I ovulated day 28.
If you read my post mid cycle bleeding clomid cycle 2, at the beginning I have the exact same thing.
It turns out no clomid I have a 6 week menstral cycle.
My doctor was very surprised and says it's very unusual but maybe your similar?
My dr told me to start the third cycle as the bleed was my period.
I suspect u ll be told to do the same.
Try not to worry about your weight, just eat healthy foods avoid full sugar, and walk places and the weight will come off on its own.
Hate how drs put pressure on people as it makes it even harder for u.
I'm not drastically over weight but my bmI is 29, so drs told me to loose weight too. I couldn't do it, since I stopped the dieting I have lost half a stone but that's purely by just walking the school run and leaving the car at home on short journeys.
I concieved this cycle so I can no long walk places as I'm high risk so I'm sure I'll put it back on! And probably more! Lol
But well my point is Even of you so loose weight the pcos is still going to be there and the periods probably won't return (like mine) so don't worry about dieting, just do something you enjoy and eat anything you want- just in moderation!
Just don't do what my sister does... Has a small bun with breckfast a choc bar with lunch and Ice cream for tea! She says because they're weight watchers/ reduced fat, she can have em all in one day lol! Makes me chuckle!! Can't teach on old dog new tricks!!! Lol
She says the half the fat, u can have twice as much lol
I would love for us to be due about the same time. But think I will be delivered early.
I'm due 21.10 but think they bring it forward to about 23.9 at a guess.
I wouldn't worry about your partners family telling him stuff wrongly as I'm sure if you ask the doctor stuff in front of your partner to clarify thing it will make things clearer to him. Or perhaps just mention something in a round about way, like say you were just reading something and it said...
Kinda thing to start the conversation to correct the misunderstanding.
Or if your partner can't come to drs with you ask him/ her for some prints out and just say that the dr asked for him to read it?
It's hard having a know it all in-law. It's sometimes just easier to take it with a pinch of salt!
This time round yes i did have cramps. I was walking round tesco on the Thursday before the pos test, and I got a funny feeling in my tummy, a server cramp in the cervix and I felt like I was gonna faint. Think that's when it implanted
I kept getting menstral cramps on and off, back and hip pain on and off.
Last night I began to panic as the cramps came back and really felt I was going to start bleeding, but woke up this am fine.
In previous pregnancies I have had, I've never had such a intense feeling of conception, at the time it happened this time I hoped it was but thought it was af with being so late in the cycle.
I have had cramps to in other pregnancy so especially with my last, but think it was because of the previa, so hoping this one isn't another previa pregnancy. But time will tell!View Thread