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princessbellf

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Hi my name is Vicki I am 46 and live in So. Calif. I just got a divorce. I was diagnosed with Bipolar about 5 yrs ago and before that anxiety/panic disorder over 20 yrs ago. I lost my recent job Sept. 09 and went on un-employment, but the stress of not finding a job and problems with the abusive Husband got to much for me so I went on disability. My pdoc has been extending the disability 2 months at a time. My tdoc said I am not ready to go back to work due to the damage done during the marriage and she works very close with my pdoc. I am looking forward to starting a new life for myself and moving on.

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Divorce trial over......

Well it is over and I made a settlement for less support but Attorney made it so it...

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Well it is over and I made a settlement for less support but Attorney made it so it can not be modified only if 1 of us dies or I re-marry (not likely) and added 6 mo. (If He reads this He already knows this info. - found out He was reading my posts here on the Coconut Patch...)
I made the mistake night before last at talking to him on the phone for over 2 hrs. It seemed like a civil talk we talked about we should have went to marriage counseling a very long time ago etc etc of course everything he said he sucked me in and I got up yesterday feeling really good that we were able to get everything out. Then I went to see my tdoc and She said NOT to talk to Him that it will make me spiral. I had already had a mask on the week prior and broke down. She bursted my bubble by the time I left I was crying, but she is tough with me and that is what I like, she tells it how it is and she was right....then last night (I had left a msg for him to tell him not to make support checks out in maiden name - like he did) he called me and said he thought I would go back to my maiden name and why would I want to keep his it would just be a reminder of what happened. All in all he knew he was upsetting me and I told him and he agreed that we should not talk after we finish the papers we still have to do, he does not want to cause me to have problems with the BP and wants me to heal. So I was depressed all day today and told my Mom last night I was going to go into my woman cave all next week other than going to tdoc appt. Then I have to pressure of trying to get some health ins or at least one that will approve me with pre-existing cond., social services is out, I make too much money, already got denied from 2 co. I am going to try again with the program through the new reform I qualify for 2 of the 3 qualifications and they denied me the one that I did not was that I had ins. the past 6 mo. But it said I could still apply and it is possible that with certain circumstances they could approve me, but it is going to cost me $374/mo. So I am probably going to go hide out. My other part that I am depressed about is that my Yoga/Brainwave Vibration membership is up on Mon. and it really has been helping but I can not afford to continue at this time, they know I am very dedicated (I go 6 days a wk) and they want me to continue the practice but I just can not afford it.......I am really hating life right now...

Bye,
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Thanks Slik I can't wait to start that new chapter....I guess I can say I have...

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Hi Snowy Yes I am happy it is Almost over......still have to get final signed papers...

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Final divorce court over...checking in

Hi Everyone sorry I have not been in touch, I have been busy getting ready for the...

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Hi Snowy I have let my Attorney know what happened. I also think He may of been aware...

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Checking in has been a Long Time.....

Hi Everyone Things are going pretty good for me, loving my New Place already have...

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I Am Back....and checking in

Hi Everyone I finally got moved on the 1st and did not have cable or internet for...

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Hi Everyone
I finally got moved on the 1st and did not have cable or internet for 2wks. Just got internet Thurs YAY.
Everything is going ok, still in the process of the divorce, so far He is staying away from Me and we are letting are Attorney's take care of everything. Other than couple of weeks ago I did e-mail Him (and sent a copy to My Attorney) asking about the registration and tags for the car that was due in June (the car is still in His name) it was a Nice e-mail letting Him know I did not want to get a ticket or the car impounded for expired tags (before I wrote e-mail I had went by the House and He did have them). Then said that if this did happen it would be His responsibility since the car was still in His name. Well I found out this week from My Attorney that apparently He took it that I was threatening Him and His Attorney called Mine yelling at Him. So Mine called Me and I told Him that it was a nice e-mail and that I sent a copy to the Paralegal He works with. So now it is back in the Attorney's hands. We still have to go to trial (My Attorney is trying to avoid going that far and settling before) for His pension, the car, My IRA and some other things.
I am loving my New Place and my Cat also is. It gets a little lonely but I try to keep busy. I have ran out of things to shop for LOL so that is something I am not doing for now...
One interesting person found Me on Facebook and We have been in contact via e-mails.....His Ex-Wife...It has been a real eye opener, the only difference on the abuse between us was He hit her, where He was Verbal with me. Other than that He Emotionally and Sexually abused both of us. Our stories with Him are almost exactly the same, even down to Him taking both of us in middle of night to Vegas to get married and He did not buy Her the pictures and didn't buy Me the video. She even called Him a sociopath (as my tdoc recently told me He is), His Ex also told Me to be Very Careful that He made threats to Her when she left and basically stocked her, she told me to set my privacy settings etc so He can not have access to anything. Her and I are being Very Careful as we both do not want Him knowing we are talking. I have not seen Her since 2000 when She came and picked up the last of Her things (that I made Him keep). She wants to meet, but I told Her right now is not a good time especially with where we are in the divorce but we still can keep in contact via e-mail.
Well I have wrote enough for now, sorry it was sooooo long. I guess I had alot to say. There is more but I will keep it for later.

Hugs to ALL of You that has supported Me through all this.

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Hi Everyone I have been looking for my own place to live with my cat, and finally...

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Hi Snowy, I should know sometime this week and will definetly let all of you if I Get...

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Thanks Slik I will find out next week, hopefully 1st of week. And as for the ex...

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