yeah i'm still disappearing here and there, My other half got a job, and he's working 3rd shift, so its an adjustment all around, especially for the kids, they miss their daddy during the day when he's sleeping. my 2 year old is having a hard time at night right after he leaves, i have a funny feeling he will sleeping with me tonight. it has been really nice to have the bed to myself though! no snoring in my face, i can sleep how ever i want. It really is the little things that make me happy!View Thread
About 2 weeks ago we found out that the house we've been staying in (which is a really long story) has sold. Naturally my other half (who has kind worked his way back onto good side), and myself were freaking out, because we cant afford to stay in NH for the winter, lemme tell you theres nothing worse then having to move in the middle of the winter. So we started to talk to my mom, and she opened her door to us, but we were unsure at first because she lives in Florida, we talked and talked for days, finally agreed that going to Florida might not be a bad thing, it might give us a chance to start over, and make a real life for ourselves (and possibly get away from the drama that has driven a wedge between us). I understand living with my mom as an adult and a mother of 2 isnt going to be fun or easy, but if we can get out crap together and get our own place ASAP, i think we will be ok. This might also be a good thing for my health, the pain i've been feeling lately has been unbearable, my hands were so swollen last night that they are now bruised across my knuckles. Also might be a good thing for my sons skin (he has severe eczema as a result of awful allergies). I'm really excited now, i know i'm break down as we closer to "D" day which is December 6th. I have my doubts about this since i havent seen my mom in 6 years, and now we are going to be living together. I"m trying to remain positive, but i have some serious doubts. I'm just hoping we can pull it together down there so that we dont end up breaking the relationship with my mom that i've been working real hard to fix. But the long and short of this is, I'm moving to Florida! The first winter for me in 27 years i wont freeze my butt off! LOLView Thread
I took my little ones out Trick o treating! and just got them settled in bed. I havent been around because there is a big move in store, The house we stay in has finally sold (it isnt our house but the owners let us stay to maintain it until it sells), we are planning on moving to Florida, since we cant afford the heating bills here in New England anymore. We are trying to figure out finanacially how to make it work, for everything we would need $3000, as we would be staying with my mom. SO i might be MIA here and there.View Thread
after i put the kids to bed, i dragged him outside and tore into him (not my first line of defense btw) I gave him and ultimatum....he has 48 hours to accept my request for couples counciling or i'm leaving. if he says hell no to the counsling i'm out. I told him if he agrees to it, he has to take it seriously if he wants this to work. So basically hes damned if he does (and doesnt take it seriously) and totally Eff'd if he doesnt. I also made him man up about that cell phone bill and send my friend husband an email explaining that it was his fault, etc, he will pay it back. We'll see what happens. Dont get me wrong, when he's not acting like this he is great partner, and fantastic dad, but he goes through these phases where he unbearable (i'm seriously thinking he might be bi-polar), i know he has ADHD which isnt being managed because of no insurance.
And the Cat OMG the Cat. This animal has been camping out in between the floors where all the insulation is for 4 days, she sneaks out to eat and poop, then runs right back up there, we actually have to borrow a humane trap from animal control so we can catch her, and lock the doors to that room.
Although it may sound it, I am NOT defending him. my ultimatum stands lolView Thread