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25 states and 4 tribes in CDC's Colorectal Cancer Control Program provide colorectal cancer screening services to low-income men and women aged 50—64 years who are underinsured or uninsured for screening, when no other insurance is available.View Thread

Going to the supermarket
Attending a kid's birthday party
Getting your tax return audited
People die at the supermarket, at birthday parties & at the IRS. Difference is, you don't expect it. It would come as a "surprise". Even though we know death could come to us at any time, we never want to see it coming.
Of course, another difference about the cancer experience is the emotional instability that engulfs everyone involved that makes it all the more frightening and uncertain. In reality, many people respond to cancer just like your sister-in-law. My suggestion is, just carry a rolled up newspaper in your purse at all times. lol
I hope your father in law is at peace and tranquil. If he isn't, that's too bad since his prognosis is not great.
I hope you and your husband are at peace with yourselves and each other, too. When you are upset and feeling dread, its easy to lose focus and concentration. On the flip side, when you're calm and at peace, you make better decisions and become confident. The calm state of mind opens the doors to more positive and successful outcomes...Yes, even with cancer, there are opportunities for inspiring and unforgettable experiences. Moments of great love and caring that can never be experienced if not for occasions such as these.
Don't expect the worse. Expect the best and except less, if required.
PS: I've buried two family members this last year. One, was my father. I bought eggs and tomatoes at the supermarket, this morning. I survived, both, just fine. Good luck and please drive safely.View Thread

Before your first appointment, write (as you have) with as much detail as possible exactly what you have noticed developing in the last few months. What's different, are you under an unusual amount of pressure at school, how's homelife...detail your diet for an average week; is it cooked at home from scratch or are you eating out. Are you involved in any new activities that might expose you to different foods or chemicals. Fax your observations to your doctor before your appt. so the doctor can hit the ground running when he/she actually examines you.
Colorectal cancer is unusual for young teens since its very slow in developing; 9 out of 10 patients with CC are over the age of 50. Anythings possible but let's allow a physician to address your health issues at this time.
Continue to eat good and be very active. Good luck and please let us know what you discover.View Thread

This is why I strongly suggest the following advice for anybody recently diagnosed with cancer, regardless of stage.
1. Get strong. 2. Get fit. 3. Get ready (for the assault).
- Try to lose 5-10% body weight if overweight.
- Eat a diet predominant in fruits & vegetables; eliminate processed foods whenever possible.
- Eliminate all food or drink with added sugar or artificially sweetened.
- Regular, daily exercise is critical; walking is excellent
- Run Comprehensive Metabolic Panel (CMP) and Complete Blood Count (CBC) as often as allowed and thoroughly review with your physician.
- A1C (diabetes) and test for anemia very important.
- Address any sleep disorders, immediately.
Its just common sense. The better condition you're in, the better able your body can recover and fight.
If you're not sure what to ask, that's OK; get referrals...Registered Dietician specializing in post operative Cancer...Physical Trainer specializing in Cancer Recovery. Any Hematologist can explain your blood panels and how your body is responding to treatment, whether you're becoming anemic, how well your liver and kidneys are holding up, adverse reactions to meds, blood glucose levels, vitamin D, insulin, testosterone and key electrolyte levels, etc.
I am, by no means, trying to scare you. If you're not scared enough, already, something is seriously wrong...
I just want you to be prepared. I just want you to be as informed as possible. Your doctor will be so happy he's dealing with a patient that's proactive, asks smart questions and is mentally and physically prepared for success. Think about it...Who wouldn't want to have a client like this?
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Good luck and thank you!
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1. They only want to hear what they want to hear, and
2. They almost never say "thank you".
Against my better judgment, though, here goes...
What is effective to give him some relief from the pain?
Simple: He won't see the doctor, so have the doctor come to him.
If he is covered by Medicare, in-home hospice care is one of the least understood and most powerful options available to seniors with cancer. It is the secret weapon and nobody uses it!
I read, recently, the average stay in hospice in the US is less than a couple weeks. Idiotic! Cancer patients need to go into hospice care far sooner so they can access pain, nausea & constipation medications (and other interventions), free of charge! Your father can see a doctor, can have a registered nurse come visit twice a week, can have home health aids come and bath him and treat bed sores, at no cost to him. He needs a hospital power bed, he needs incontinence equipment that will allow him to sleep through the night, he needs pain meds to manage his pain while the family "circles the wagons", so to speak. You need allies.
The one stipulation with hospice care? You can't go to emergency.
Big deal! By what you say, he won't go, anyway!
Procedures like Thoracentesis (fluid drain from lungs) and Abdominal Centesis (fluid drain from abdominal cavity) can all be performed at an out-patient clinic; not emergency. In other words, its not against hospice "rules". Fluid retention from advanced liver failure is very often the source of all the pain in the first place!
What is effective to give him some relief from the pain?
Morphine, Fentanyl, Percoset...
I suppose you could get this stuff from a junkie but at what cost? Why not get it free through in-home hospice care? Your father gets to watch his favorite TV shows, in his favorite chair surrounded by the people who love him while a registered nurse prescribes, administers and has all medications delivered to your home, free.
The strategy behind in-home hospice care is to utilize this free service, in unison, with chemo/radiation or alternative care. Get into hospice, early, while you and the family battle the cancer, together.
Choosing in-home hospice care is not waving the white flag. For people who are smart, it is exactly the opposite. It is preparing for battle, the true fight for life.
In closing, I'm sorry you and your father must face these tough choices.
I was very lucky. My father trusted me. He gave me complete authority. In the end, he thanked me and told me "I love you". That's when I knew I made the right call...
Hope its the same for you, buddy...Good luck and God's speed!
Note: To arrange in-home hospice care, consult your doctor. Medicare can arrange for local service to visit within 2-3 days.
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If so, please arrange to see a doctor, asap.View Thread

In other words, the usual stuff...View Thread

There is some risk to SIR sphere, depending on the location of the hepatic artery in relation to the patient's stomach, for gastric ulcer. This would be disastrous for the patient and the treatment is often abandoned as a possible option.
The SIR sphere may be effective "bland". That is, the spheres are not filled with radioactive material. This is a much safer option against stomach blow-thru and it can be effective simply by choking off blood supply that feeds the growing liver mets. In other words, starving the tumors by jamming things up.
Either way, this is a liver specific treatment and it can by very helpful in fighting colon cancer cells that have spread to the liver.
My friend with cancer passed away, recently. She died primarily from liver failure. Was it the cancer? Was it the chemo? Was it the sir spheres that caused her liver to fail?
My guess was it was a combination of all three. She put up a hell of fight, nevertheless, and, good or bad, that's what her kids will take with them. What a incredible little street fighter she was.View Thread

That's what I asked my friend to do. She tried but eventually gave up. It was too hard and took too much energy. Besides, that's not what she believed. She believed that doctors and hospitals can only beat cancer. She believed in convention.
I hope I never have to make the decisions she had to make. But, if I ever do, I pick my body as my choice of weapon.
Because, ultimately, that is the only thing proven to beat cancer...A healthy human body.View Thread
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