HELLO EVERY, SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT EVERYONE'S LOSS. I TOO AM HEARTBROKEN. MY FIRST ULTRASOUND ,THE SAC WAS EMPTY, THEY SAID ITS TOO EARLY TO SEE THE BABY, THEY NEVER TOLD ME THERE WAS ANYTHING WRONG. THEY RESCHEDULED 2 WEEKS LATER, AND THE SAC WAS STILL EMPTY. I WAS SO CONFUSED, WHAT IS HAPPENING. THE DOCTOR CAME IN AND TOLD ME I AM GOING TO MISCARRY THE BABY. I AM SO HEARTBROKEN, I AM CONFUSED,AND MAD. I HAVE FIBROMYALGIA AND WAS NOT EXPECTING TO GET PREGNANT AS I HAD TO USE FERTILITY PILLS WITH BOTH OF MY CHILDREN. SO IT WAS A SHOCK, WHEN THE TEST CAME BACK POSITIVE. BUT I WAS HAPPY TO CONCIEVE WITH OUT THE USE OF FERTILITY DRUGS. MY HUSBAND TOO WAS HAPPY. BUT THEN A COUPLE OF DAYS GO BYE AND WE REALISE WOW, WHAT DID WE GET OURSELVES INTO. WE WOULD NEVER HAVE AN ABORTION. NOW I FEEL GUILTY , THAT BECAUSE WE HAD SECOND THOUGHTS OF THE PREGNANCY , THE BABY DIDN'T DEVELOPED RIGHT. I BLAME MYSELF, FOR THIS. THE DOCTOR WANTED TO DO A D & C, BUT TO ME , IT FEELS LIKE I AM ABORTING THE BABY, LIKE I AM GIVING UP HOPE. MAYBE ITS STILL TOO EARLY, IS ALL I CAN THINK OFF. I AM LOSING MY MIND. MY HUSBAND IS UPSET, BUT AT THE SAME TIME , TOLD ME WE BIT THE BULLET WITH THE PREGNANCY. I AM SO UPSET THAT HE FEELS THAT WAY. DID HE NOT REALLY WANT THIS BABY. I AM GOING THROUGH THIS ALONE. I PUT IT ON FACEBOOK TO LET MY FAMILY KNOW BECAUSE I COULD NOT FACE THEM AND HAVE THOSE WORDS COME OUT OF MY MOUTH. IF I DON'T SAY IT, ITS NOT REAL, I DON'T KNOW IF THAT MAKES IT WORSE TO GET OVER. HOW DO I COPE WITH THIS , HOW LONG BEFORE I MISCARRY .View Thread
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