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But I will keep you in m prayers. Much Peace, love and understanding.
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You touched on two key things that really agreed with me. One the first week I came home was really really really BAD. So I decided to write my son Raymond a letter and I relesed it. But later my sister suggested that I continue to do that and write him letters. She suggested also that would probably give me some comfort. So I guess that is something I need to try, soon.
Also I knew I wanted to go back to the hospital where he was born and passed and do something. But I didn't now what to do. Many things ran through my mind but nothing seemed like the right plan. But I love your idea, so on February 15, 2012 I will go back to the hospital and do a donation of some sort. That was a wonderful idea and I know the first time for me will not be easy. But I have to change something so Raymond's life won't be in vain.
Again, Thank you so much for responding, Lord knows you do not know how much I appreciate you. I am sorry you lost your angel Jude. One thing I do know is we will see our babies again. But until that time we have to take things one day at a time. Thank you a million for replying. Much peace and Love
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)So I am definetly going to ask for suggestions from you on where to go eat. Here is my email so we can keep in touch, ashcakew@att.net . In do time I know it is going to work out for you all. I have been married for too long (7 years) LOL but I know one key to marriage is compromise. So maybe not right now for you but it will happen a little later for him. But like you said trust in the Lord regardless. You also said something that really made me think. "Just because something tragic happens doesn't mean you can't have happiness again". And that is true there are some days I feel I will never be totally happy again. I mean I have temporary happiness. Happy for a minute then back to thinking again. But I am happy to say that today is easier than yesterday and so on and so on. We love our kids and they are always in our hearts. Do you think if you have another child you will think about your twins more often?? That is my fear I am coming along and then if I have another child I will be thinking well if Raymond was here he would be two or three. I guess fearful of the unknown but life is a gamble. Take care much peace and love
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I do beleive that if you give your husband time he will come back around. It seems as if you are were my husband is and I am were your husband is. When my hubby first asked me my first response was NO!!!!!!! I was thinking I don't want to go through that again, I do not want to replace Raymond. And most importantly I do not want to hurt like this ever again. Now when it was asked of me I said give me two months so I can get my emotions together. I do not want to be still mourning Raymond and have a newborn here on earth that needs me and I can not give the attention that is needed to him or her. I am sure it really took a toll on your husband. And him seeing you go through all of that was hard on him because they like to protect us and they could not at the time. But definetly give it some time with him. I did not get back on any birth control because after all of that I wanted my body to be free of ALL hormones. I did not want any artificial horomones in me and my body feels great. I also said to myself in the event I did decided to have another baby it would not take so long to conceive. MAYBE????? But I do beleive you all need another baby for your union. Even though you all already have two amazing angels that will keep you all bonded FOREVER. We will just keep that matter under prayer and it will work out just how it is supposed to. I do wish I could be were you are in this greiving process. I still suffer from anger sometimes and WHY??? But that is known only to God and all we can do is trust in him. I really enjoy talking to you as well. Much peace and love
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