hi my name is candace and i had a miscarriage about 3mo ago now and i am still having some bad days i was just about 7wks pregnant..this past one makes it 3 for me now. my cousin and i were pregnant together it was great she was about 2wks ahead of me and she just found out she is having a girl..i am so happy for her but it destroyed me again. i know its been 3mo but i have not accepted it again..i was trying again with my husband but he thinks that maybe that is a bad idea since i am still not over this past one. I have no one to talk to welll friends, i do see a counselor but its not really helping at the moment, and my husband has accepted what happened and cant understand why i havent. I know it is difficult for men to understand completely but i just wish he did..i hear well see from a lot of the discussions how people have helped others but everytime i post i get nothing. i know i shouldnt rely on others but i thought this would have helped me..i guess i will just keep trying to accept my loss. View Thread
First let me say that I am so sorry for your loss!! Sorry I didnt respond I have been away and finally got to check now. Thank you so much for sharing with me your story. I started going back to gym and I have found that that has been helping too. I am getting better, I cry sometimes but not as much. Our husbands sound the same, well they have the same thoughts about it. I does make it hard but I have learned that we all handle things like this differently and we all feel differently about it. I love your tree idea. My husband and I started trying again and I am trying to stay stress free but it is so hard.
I wish you and your baby all the best. I hope all goes great and you have your little one View Thread
I am sorry I havent responded yet I just saw your post. I am so sorry for your loss. The past couple days have been ok for me but who knows how long it will last. My heart goes out to you as well. I will check out that book, thank you for letting me know. Has it helped you? Thank you for your kind words, believe it or not they do help. I wish you all the best and baby dust. Keep your head up.View Thread
My name is Candace. I am so sorry for your lose. It is very hard to deal with but just know that it is not your fault. I have lost 3 now, my first was 10 yrs ago and 12wks and exactly a year after that i was 2 wks and just on april 25th, i was just about 7wks. I have been seeing a counselor for sometime now to help me. I have a wonderful husband and mother that helps me as well. Unfortunately, it takes time..I know I know you dont want to hear that but it does. My first two I have learned to accept it but I have never and will never forget them. This last one is still so fresh I have no idea when I feel better.
I would suggest that you write it down and after you write it down never look at it again. My counselor told me that and well for me it helped. Try to talk about it.
For a long time I looked at it and was like what did i do, did i sit wrong etc...but please know it is not your fault.
sorry this is so long..I hope it helps. I am hear to listen and chat with you if you need..I wish you all the best.View Thread
Hey all I need some advice. I lost two babies each a year apart 10yrs ago and now my husband and I just lost our baby about 1 month ago. My husband and I started trying to have a baby just three months before we got pregnant, we were about 7 wks when the babies heart stopped. It was another sad day for me. I still think about the other two as well.
before we started trying i got all the tests done as well as my husband and apparently everything came back normal but this still keeps happening. So now the doctor put me on clomid, I start tomorrow.
Has anyone had anything like this before and used clomid? I am not sure it is what I need b/c that is to help you ovulate and I don't seem to have trouble with that. But my doctor is a really good doctor and he knows more than I do.
Thank you very much!!! That is so great to hear!! I have had 3 miscarriages..My first one was 10yrs ago and my second was a year after that one and than my 3rd was just about a month and half ago...My husband and I have decided to try again this time I am taking clomid w/ the progesterone support.
anyways it is good to hear that..at least in my case anyway..since the doctor said everything is normal w/ me and i can have children.
congrats to you and wishing you all the best!! Your story gives me hope!! View Thread
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