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Do these feelings of sadness and emptiness ever go away? Everytime I think I am ok I jut out of nowhere get really emotional when I think about it. I don't feel ready to face people at work yet and I have to work tomorrow. Just wondering if this will eventually et any better???
I'm going to go get myself a pandora charm "close to my heart" so that I will always have something to remember. I hope that helps but do far nothing seems to help.View Thread

My problem is aside from the emotional side of it all, I feel terrible ANSI think its from the meds. Very light headed and nauseous!!!
Thinking of you xoxoxView Thread

My doctor is t going to do any testing because she said almost every woman will have 1 miscarriage and it's considered normal and was most likely a chromosomal abnormality. She said they test anyone who's had more than one or is over a certain age, etc. she said if I wanted to try and be pregnant again , for peace of mind they have me under a closer look and send in for ultrasounds and check for HcG levels weekly which felt good to hear. Although after always thinking "this will never hap to me" and having it happen to me, I'm not sure it's something I could deal with again, just to painful.View Thread


I was able to get my U/S date moved up to tomorrow so I will have the U/S done to confirm as well as some blood work, not sure if they will send me in for a D&C right from there or wait for things to happen on it's own but I really hope I get the option because I dont think I'm ready to have things happen on it's own and seeing what comes out. I think either option is quite frightening! to be honest, dreading every single minute and every single second of all of this!!!View Thread


I am debating calling the dr. on call this weekend to see if i can get things moving and get things confirmed and taken care of today, just seems so unfair and tortorous to have me wait this out until Thursday when deep down I know what the outcome is. It's just so unfair to drag this out just to go in Thursday so see no HB. I just want to get things back to normal and then maybe try again in a few months once I feel back to normal.
I called my own dr on Friday and they never even had the decency to call me back. Nothing like feeling unimportant to them now that I'm not really "pregnant" anymore.View Thread

I was pregnant with my 3rd and was supposed to be 9 weeks yesterday. I went in for my check and they couldn't hear the HB and they couldn't see much on their portable U/S machine except for a sac so they sent me to get a transvaginal U/S. They said the fetus was only measuring 5 1/2 weeks with a faint HB of only 49 BPM. So my doctor said there are two possibilies.
1 that my dates are off and I really am only 5 1/2 weeks
2 it's the start of a fetal demise
I have another U/S scheduled in 5 days (Thursday), insurance won't pay for me ot have another any sooner. I don't have any cramping, I spotted some very light brown blook only once on Thursday and only once yesterday and so far nothing today. I had some normal period type cramping yesterday but not much today. I know for a fact my dates are 100% correct. My last period was 12/28 and I'm VERY regular and we conveived on 1/14. So I know it's the start of a fetal demise, it has to be becuase the date thing just MAKES NO SENSE.
Anyone ever been thru this? I can't wait having to wait in this state of mine for another 5 days. I just want things over and done with and have a D&C and get back to normal becuase this is torturing me. The most awful feeling ever =(View Thread
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