I am in a similar situation as you. My husband and I have been trying for the last two months to get pregnant. I was so disappointed last month when I started. I was suppose to start yesterday and haven't. It is all I can do not to run out and buy a test. Kind of like a double edge sword, I want to know but I don't want to be disappointed.
If you are experiencing any symptoms by now I would take a test.
Good luck! I don't really have any friends going through the same experience either. If you would want to be a support system for each other that would be great!