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Reply: how do I know?
Okay, that was awesome. And really funny. Because seriously, what thread would that response be appropriate...More
Posted by Anon_134193
Reply: Email confusion
Sounds like somebody trying to cash in on the WebMD name. Somehow they tracked the fact that you go on this...More
Posted by rohvannyn
Reply: The lack of sex in my relationship. I need advice.
The only thing I can suggest is setting up a date night every week. It may be the only way you'll get sex on a...More
There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that.
Posted by fcl
Reply: After reading all the comments i have to reply aga...
Any man who feels the need to transform me in any way was not looking for me.
There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that.
Posted by fcl
Reply: Hi I'm a man that has the same exact fetish and he...
I said there are 2 options (imho) and i got so into writing this post that i forgot about option 2: If you...More
Posted by tigersan
Reply: No sex is ruining my relationship and has led to t...
Have that conversation, lay it all out, including the having an affair thing. Life is short.. Going through...More
Posted by axeplaya
Reply: 39 years together but....
It's possible that he is asexual or is not the sexual orientation that you/he thinks he is. (You didn't say if...More
Posted by queston
Reply: honest communication and discussion is the best ...
It's necessary to be candid, honest and empathetic to your sweetheart! Because everyone from us wants to be...More
Posted by mary_apple
Reply: Dating a Man Who Lives and Depends on His Ex Wife
Thank you to all that have taken the time out to respond to my post here. I am still in this relationship....More
Posted by celticlover

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What do I do?
  • Do I say goodbye and end the relationship?
  • Do I give him an ultimatum?
  • Do I run screaming to the nearest psychiatric hospital?
  • Do I accept things, and keep quiet internalizing my feelings?
  • Or forget about it and watch sappy romance comedies?
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Reply: Husband of 40 yrs visiting prostitutes
My opinion discuss it with him as their can be many reasons why he did this to you and don't let it go un...More
Posted by An_260979

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My loving husband admitted to have been having unprotected sex with prostitutes for the past 7 yrs. we have been married for 40 yrs. he tells me how he loves me, that I am beautiful and he loves our love making. Why would he do this? We have 4 stunning grown up children.
  • Could it be boredom after retiring, he was a general?
  • Was it pure lust.
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Reply: Coping with Trust Issues caused by a previous rela...
everybody has baggage so don't take it out on each other it is an ugly way to kill a realationship
Posted by An_260857
Reply: FELLAS I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
Um, why are you responding to a post that's four years old?
Happily married to DH since 2003. Two kids: Paul (6) and Kylee (4).
Posted by tlkittycat1968
what do you think starts lack of sexual interest i...
think a couple should get better at making love bettter allways learn each other talk during sex be a...More
Posted by allen5568

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a marriage only improves though
  • looks
  • wealth
  • good looks
  • communication
  • even respect for each other
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Reply: Staying In A Sexless Relationship!!!
I agree 100%. I thought that I had married a young woman ( I was young and dumb also) that had a very low...More
Posted by Anon_26730

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I want to know if any of you are willing to stay in a sexless relationship?
  • yes
  • yes we have kids
  • no
  • hell no
  • confused????:(
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Reply: Sex Problems Contribute to Relationship Woes
this doesn't even come close to being helpful. sounds like Junior high talk to me.
Posted by lexidell46
Reply: I have just found out my husband have another chil...
Thank you very much for your suggested. I found it very hard to deal with. I don't know what else he has lie...More
Posted by awarunee
Reply: 3 sums while married
tell him no in a decisive voice
Posted by gentle1954
Reply: Support group
I have been giving more thought to what you have told me and a couple of things come to mind. as far as the...More
Posted by movieguy1
Support group
Does anyone know of a good support group gor troubled marriages?
Posted by An_260362
Reply: sex and relationship
Please don't loose that part of your relationship! Cherish it! If I may put it to you this way, when you...More
Posted by insearchofinfo
Reply: continue marriage or?
no problem, as a concerned husband, I don't have the money for professional help, I have talked with...More
Posted by insearchofinfo
Reply: wife in a care facility
Ah, that's reattly difficult to deal with. You have my sympathy. I happen to be female, and have had many...More
Posted by Anon_134193
Reply: Can't keep erection during sex!!!!
I would definitely suspect the Oxy. I would as my doc about switching to different pain meds. I too, have...More
Posted by inpainalways
Reply: i'm with a trangender male to female
Have patience with your lover. There can be a lot of tough emotions to deal with if you are transitioning...More
Posted by Anon_134193
Reply: Can a marriage be saved?
if u want some good advice ...dont ask these ppl on here...the decision u make is the decision that u have...More
Posted by Anon_16867
Reply: Boyfriend has ED and Phimosis, wont get help!
If he hasn't seen a doctor about his phimosis it may be that he is scared that he might need to be circumcised ......More
There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that.
Posted by fcl
Reply: Pregnant Wife Cheats With No Warning
I apologize, I realize that I wasn't very specific. The secret relationship was a mutual crush between us...More
Posted by mikearcher92
Reply: What Do I Do?
It's such a hard situation to be in - you really have my sympathy. I guess it's easy to say from my...More
Posted by rohvannyn
Reply: Any advice?
I wonder if "the spot" is that little magic spot on the lower side of the head of the penis, sometimes...More
Posted by Anon_134193
Reply: Stay at Home Mom
One thing he needs to understand is, when he comes home from work, at least he can leave his work at work....More
Posted by rohvannyn

Take the Poll

Am I less equal to my husband because I'm a stay at home mom? Does he get to opt out of hands on parenting because he works?
  • Yes, less equal, yes he can opt out
  • No, equal, should be hands on parent as well
  • We should establish clear roles/expectations
  • Just let it go, it's not worth the fight, it's a man thing
  • Fight until it's resolved in one way or another
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Spotlight: Member Stories

Wife and SAHM, I look after our 2 year old while holding down the fort for DH. We have a dog and a cat and just moved cross-country back to the Pacifi...More

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How to change my story
I went to my community profile and it would let me edit my picture and signature but would not let me change my story. I had just realized ... More
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