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Reply: What's the real way love MEN

The reaso for being independent is what you mention above but also to fall back on my own...

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Reply: What's the real way love MEN

Thank you for your reply. The babel makes total sense. I'm glad to have a male's opinion....

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Reply: Not Meant To Be

HI there IslandL I recognize you from two years back. Im' here aagain looking for...

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Reply: What's the real way love MEN

I meant to say what is the way MEN Love. or what is the meaning of love to MEN. Thanks!

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What's the real way love MEN

All my life I have been attempting to become a woman who doesn't need a man but wants to...

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Reply: 3 month Ex-Boyfriend is back --calling on FCL, Dar...

Hi FCL, Thanks for your reply. It was really hard to realize that I was not that...

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update-3 month ex-boyfriend is back

Just a big thank you to all the below members for your input. cjh1203 IslandL FCL...

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Thank you Spanky- I'm glad all is over now and I can concentrate on feeling better and...

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Hello Everyone! I want to give you an update on what happened on the weekend. I have to...

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Hello Everyone!
I want to give you an update on what happened on the weekend. I have to say that it didn't go as I had originally planned but I managed to stay true to myself in the end.

I met him Friday and before he said anything I stated that everything was over and for him not to get in touch with me anymore. I told him I was already in a process of moving on and his presence was just interrupting that process. I wasn't really intending to tell him all that I have been doing and will do but I though it was a good idea to show him that I had actually done my work to get over him and have been doing well all this time without him. He mainly said the same things as on the phone. That he had taken the decision of coming down because he could not stop thinking about me that his friend helped him decide, that it was a life making decision. He hinted that he may come back to work here possibly or some other country that it was outside his control where he will be sent next. He said it was presumptuous to ask me to be his date for the wedding. I explained that we couldn't drag this out because it wasn't fair for him or me. There was nothing to be done. However he didn't say yes or no to that.

The next day I went separately to the wedding. I didn't pay much attention to him and mainly talked and danced with my other friends. It was very stressful having him so close. My chest felt as if it was going to burst. For a moment I felt it was silly for me to act his way. I managed to stay in control until he asked me to dance and I couldn't say no. After dancing I felt I was going to faint and we went outside couldn't help kissing him desperately he didn't say a word other than there was no logical explanation to what was happening. I told him to go back inside and I stayed out for a moment to put myself together. I can only compare this feeling to the one drug addicts must feel at withdrawal I was trembling and upset. I went back inside feeling much better and determined to finish the night the way I had planned. I kept talking and dancing with my other friends and he would do the same. At times I would dance with him but didn't feel that desperation anymore. At the end of the night he asked if I could give him a ride to his hotel room I said I couldn't. He said that was fine. I told him to take care and not to contact me anymore. I drove out and my friends saw me leaving by myself. The next day I didn't get a call from him or text saying goodbye. It was fine with me. I think he finally understood.

I had only heard of stories like this through some of my friends and I would quickly give them advice to not believe and to stay away. It's one of those things that are easier said than done. I just feel so disappointed that he had become such a different person from the one I knew before. I wanted to keep a good memory of what we had but it's all fading. Respecting my decisions and giving me time to heal was the only thing I needed. He decided to come down and disturb my life. I have no way of stopping what he does but if he truly had cared for me and value what we had he should have stayed away.

I thank everyone who has given me their honest opinion and input. I did help me clear my thoughts.View Thread

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THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE. I'm deeply touched by the amount of support I'm receiving...

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