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MissCaptainKirk

Joined: 06/20/2011

My Story:

I like sunshine, and mystical creatures, and breakfast cereal, and the Disney Princesses.
I want to live near an ocean but I'm land-locked. I would settle to live near a lake.
I have many strange health issues.
My best friend is a stuffed bear named Peter Panda.
Yes I am an adult.
No I am not crazy.
I only dance when no one is looking.
I will be your friend if you need one.

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Reply: Confessions 2012 1-27 through 2-3

So uh I replied to this a while ago but I was just reading through and saw that it...

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Reply: Lonely

OK gonna sum up the rest of the posts: darlyn I think you explained what I've...

Posted by MissCaptainKirk

OK gonna sum up the rest of the posts:

darlyn I think you explained what I've been trying to say, and maybe the way you say it is more clear than the way I say it and people will understand:
""026she has made signigicant assertive growth for herself (which I like seeing her esteem, confidence, self value/ respect/dignity and self nurturing being restored while at the same time developing a firmer sense of what she will not tolerate as her life grows). And is as well recognizing growth in her husband if in the event he can turn things around and a divorce may not be needed. And if one is needed her sense of possible regret or emotional pain will be lightened."

And Guard, totally agree with you about this:
"Well the good thing about this board is that you can take what advise you want and follow it, you can read some and think about what they have said, and maybe use it later. And you can completely ignore the rest."
That's pretty much what I've done, except I haven't really ignored anything. Every suggestion you guys give me affects my actions. I know you're all upset that I don't just get a divorce now, but even that is a suggestion that I keep in the back of my mind and know that if I want to leave, it's ok to leave.

"Don't feel you have to make us happy by following our advise. We just throw it out there and you can do what you like with it." Right, I can't make you all happy and to try and make you guys happy would be counterproductive because you're trying to help me and I need to be real with you.

But I don't agree about this: "Sometimes poster forget we know other parts of the story." No, I know you guys know all the parts of the story. This is a website, for gosh sakes, anyone can go back and read every post I've ever written. I'm not trying to hide anything, I tell you guys the truth.

And to address the issue of what has been referred to by several names but we will call the "non-consensual sex", no the girl didn't press any kind of charges. And sometimes I think about it and it bothers me, but the post where I mentioned it was resolved a long time ago, I took your guys' advice on that one.

After that I'm not really sure what was going on with the posts between steph/darlyn/the anon, really didn't understand it haha. But I want to state for the record that I've never thought steph was mean. One time I told her that she had said something rude, but she has her opinions and that's fine. She has really great advice. She has a problem with me, and I get that. Not a big deal. But I keep in mind a lot of what she's said to me before.

I keep in mind everything you guys say to me. This whole thread has helped me greatly and I've acted on almost every suggestion so far. (Except divorce. But I think I've explained that decision to death and you guys know where I stand for now.)

Anyway I just wanted to address all those posts kind of as one and hopefully let y'all know that I'm grateful for you helping me. Cuz you've helped me a lot!View Thread

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I'm sure he is trying to change. He goes back to old habits sometimes but so do I,...

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Hey that is a great suggestion, and I really like hugs! I think I worded what I...

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149 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Lonely Hey that is a great suggestion, and I really like hugs! I think I worded what I...

Reply: Lonely

Hmmm...I've never really thought about doing romantic things for myself. I've...

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149 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Lonely Hmmm...I've never really thought about doing romantic things for myself. I've...

Reply: Lonely

Ok...I really am disappointed because I keep trying to tell you guys that I've...

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149 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Lonely Ok...I really am disappointed because I keep trying to tell you guys that I've...

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I really don't think it's self-destructive for me to come to you guys for help and...

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I still feel very lonely and I think I'll be sad about the lack of romanticism for...

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Yes, I often talk with him about how to improve in different areas and there are...

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149 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Lonely Yes, I often talk with him about how to improve in different areas and there are...

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I don't think saying things like "What you did wasn't enough for me/I need more" to...

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