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Reply: feeling a bit frustrated

Hmmm... You kind of have tough one. Lets see there is always the "well if you love him...

Posted by RoseLynn02

Hmmm... You kind of have tough one. Lets see there is always the "well if you love him then nothing else should ultimately matter & that should be enough" speech, but I don't really go for that, but it's something to consider I suppose.

There is the option of just planning that trip to a T with or with out his help & when it's all said & done tell him " this is what I want & I tried talking to you about it, but you weren't interested in my wants or desires. Are you now? Will you go with me?" And if he says no then just go & enjoy some reflection time to yourself. Either way I see a win win.

You really don't have to wait for him & if you feel your biological clock is running out & you're tired of waiting tell him so & if he still can't grow up or decides he has no interest in kids you could choose to either be ok with that or not to be ok with that & move on so you can fulfill your wishes of marriage & kids.

Quick question for you? IS he in his 30's too? If so what is he waiting for? When will he suddenly be ready? Are you sure these are things he really does want eventually? If so, what's holding him back?

Opposites are said to attract & seems that way here. You're a real go-getter & he is laid back. Right? Well maybe he is too laid back for the kind of life you want to live & personally if you allow him to hold you back from your dreams then the opportunities will pass right on by you & before you know it they will no longer be options & you could ultimately "live to regret it. Lovely run-on sentence there huh?

I think you really need to examine yourself, him, your currant life together, where you want it to go, do you honestly see it going there? Then you need to sit down & discuss ALL of this with him & see what he has to say or how he reacts & what you believe out of what he says. This should be your life together if your so in love with one another, a partnership, you know? It should be more compromise-able then as one sided as it seems(you always waiting on him "to be ready".

I would get serious about telling him how you feel & figuring out were you really want your life to go & were you really feel it should be right now. If you feel strongly about it then maybe he isn't your "soul mate" so to speak, but just a pleasant part of your journey through life & maybe you should consider changing your currant direction. Good luck. I wish you well. If you care to, let us know what you decide & if you talk to him then let us know how it goes...if you care to.View Thread

Posted byRoseLynn02

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Reply: Quiz

Depends on what but lets go with rough Green or red?

Posted by RoseLynn02

1558 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Quiz Depends on what but lets go with rough Green or red?

Reply: a small rant

I don't particularly agree with this currant war, but I doubt everyone agreed with every...

Posted by RoseLynn02

16 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:a small rant I don't particularly agree with this currant war, but I doubt everyone agreed with every...

Reply: Feeling unattractive/depressed

Please don't question yourself or ask yours self what another woman has that you don't....

Posted by RoseLynn02

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downy Las Vegas or New York city?

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1558 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Quiz downy Las Vegas or New York city?

Reply: Veterans Day

Your story is beautiful. I'm glad you have such fond memories, not all are so lucky. I...

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Reply: If your So was incarcerated would you......

I unfortunately have a few family members in prison, sad since I also have family in law...

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