My husband and I just got married approximately 4 months ago. We have been together for 3 years. Recently, we have been going through some changes: my husband obtaining a career-focused job, myself sustaining a high-stress career, financial burdens; and we seem to be arguing more than either of us would like to be. Usually, we are able to communicate with each other effectively and we both believe in open communication, but it seems to be the little things that have been bringing us down lately. Our patience with each other seems to be wearing thin and we are both willing to recognize it and work on it, but we're not really sure where to start. We have talked about couple's counseling, but that is not a good route for us currently as our financial situation isn't the greatest. Any constructive feedback and input would be greatly appreciated!