my husband and i just reconnected after a 5 year split, it's only been 4 months and his sex drive diminished down to hardly at all. he is 42 and i am 46 and i just feel like such a failure i cant even turn him on.i try different things and don't get much of a response. i even woke him up one night which we had sex but afterword he acted like he didn't enjoy it. im very depressed and sad and confused. is there anything i can do to help himView Thread