I have lived by myself for over 10 years. I took care of my mother for over 8 years until she passed 3 years ago. I finally took control of my life after a divorce many years ago. I married a man that I love very much and dated as a teenager. I am now 59. Problem is - I was renting. So I moved in with my husband. He has a son that is deaf and has MS - but is perfectly capable of taking care of himself and does lots of stuff around the house. Also, his wife has Usher's Disease. She cannot see for the most part - unless it is bright in the house - ugh! She is also deaf. I love these kids. But God help me. I hate living with anyone besides my husband. I find myself having to hide food so that I can eat. They eat like there is no tomorrow. Husband does not want me to hide food and feels there should be enough for everyone. Also, the house. They have 2 rooms (mobile home - ugh!) and we have one very small room. However, hopefully we are putting on an addition in the Spring - a large bedroom for us. I find things of mine that they use and don't ask about. Recently the son and a friend put a bunch of their stuff in my two storage spaces (furniture - sofa, beds, etc.) without even asking me if they could. I was furious to say the least. It's just that they and their 3 dogs (I have 3 cats) ruin my stuff - chew it up and stuff. I have no place yet to put any of my stuff. Truthfully, I keep it in storage to keep it from getting broken.
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