I agree with you for the most part but there is a difference between looking and staring. I'm married and I notice and look at attractive men and I know DH notices and looks and attractive women. If he's looking long enough to have eye contact with the person, that's beyond just looking.View Thread
Happily married to DH since 2003. Two kids: Paul (5) and Kylee (3).
And even saying anything about the ice cream won't work either. Hubby keeps saying he needs to lose weight but will still have a piece of pizza two hours after he's already had three. I do comment but he goes ahead and eats it.
She knows what she needs to do and until she's willing to do it, nothing you say or do will make her do it.View Thread
I've heard what might help is getting your feelings out by writing them down. Sometimes just giving a voice to your feelings helps. Once your write them down, put it away. After a few months of this while in therapy, go back and look at your ealier writings and you will probably find you've made gread progress.
It's sort of like my DS. He sees a neurologist twice a year and he sees great improvement since he sees him so infrequently while we don't really see it because we see DS every day.View Thread