I know all of you are correct about it not being the answer to anything but I am just fed up with the situation. I have been married for 25 years and have 2 grown children. He has been signed up for dating services for over a year. I confronted him with it, I went to counceling and he did get better but now he is back to his tricks. Yes I think he is bored. We have a very enjoyable sex life 4-5 times a week. He says that he doesn't want our marriage to end that he just wants to be able to "have fun" and still be married and I can't handle that but I don't want to lose him either. He is good to me most of the time, just has a bad temper, some verbal abuse but basically we have always been very close. We spend a lot of time together every day but he also spends an hour or two online viewing porn or whatever he is doing just about every day too. Thanks for listening and giving your opinions. Don't know what I'm going to do.View Thread
I know that I deserve to be treated better, I have been to counseling sometimes I just have to get my head back together. It is hard when it is repeated so often, it makes me think that it is all my fault even when I know that it is not. He is not a bad husband he just has his bad days and sometimes his bad weeks. We had our house on the marked for more than two years but the market is really bad where we live and no one can sell anything right now. Thanks for all of your help, sometimes I just need to hear someone else tell me that is ok for me to feel the way that I do.View Thread
I confess that my husband is taking his anger out on me again. He does not like where we live and the pressure of house payments, bills and life in general is making him very depressed and yesterday he had to deal with a member of his family and he exploded on me. I love him but am getting really tired of being blamed for things that are beyond my control.
Just needed to vent I guess. He doesn't feel that he did anything wrong and my feelings were so hurt but I'm supposed to go on like nothing was said.View Thread
I confess that I feel like my life is falling apart....daughter is not taking her meds or responsibility for her life but she doesn't want our help until her world falls apart and then we are supposed to FIX everything. My husband is not making me happy these days and I had a dream that I was kissing another man and it is really messing with my head.View Thread