I see you have made the rules in your marriage. Did he agree with your rules? He may have agreed to your rules just to land you, that should please you.I find it cruel of you to make such a pack in the first place. Men are attractted to women regardless of your rules. I see nothing wrong with looking at nude women after all he certainly did it before you were married and now you want to call the shots. My wife looks at pornography with me and we get along just fine. Guess it turns me on to look then have sex with my wife. I don't fantisize I use her to turn me on and she does even though she is a few pounds over. Get real woman and accept men as they were made.View Thread
You have no choice it seems to me except to kiss him goodby. He is too selfish to live with and only thinks of his needs. He is also a dependent type of person, you don't need that in a man. I don't see how you could love a man who didn't return that love. You are just his play thing, to be there when he needs you. If he reallly loved you he would be considerate of your feelings too, which he doesn't. So I say kiss him off and look for somone single to really love you,he is out there somewhere you just have to find him. Good luck and God speed!!View Thread
4 times a week is a lot of sex at most any age. Most of us don't get it nearly that often. I would be satesfied with once a week at 90 year old. I take T shots but it is still just as good as it always was. If your wife doesn't like it that often then you have a problem. She could give you a B job though.View Thread
If you are having sex that often you are doing pretty well. However if you don't have the drive you might have your testosterone and your Estriadol checked. If your Estradiol is too high it will kill your sex drive and less demand. I am 90 now and I still have it once a month which isn't too bad. Sometimes I have it three or four times a month. If you want to know how to get your hormones in balance I will text you in return. Check with your doctor and have a blood test first then you can decide what to do.View Thread
I will be going to the pain Doctors soon. Right now the weather has cancelled my appt. I have tried so many things all of which has been mentioned in the replies. I at times have to use cold to settle my feet down to go to sleep. I put ice water in a plastic shoe box and sit there there until it settles down, then I can go to sleep.
I still have hope that the pain doctors can help. They only treat neuropathy patients for pain so they should be able to give me some relief. I have hopes. I will post again if they can help me because I know there are others out there with my problem. Wish me luck!View Thread
It sounds like he is getting off by fantasing about someone he knows and that isn't good. He should think about what he is doing with you instead. I don't know how to change his behavior but you might talk it over with him. It might be better if he looks at a little porn before sex, that might get his mind off friend etc.View Thread
No you aren't alone in giving your wife oral sex. I nearly always did for many years. I could get her to climax then we were ready for the big fun. She would also give me a little oral sex before having a meeting of the bodies too. All is fair in making love, expect for rectal sex. We just don't like to think about that as some people do. To me God did not intend for us to have that kind of sex. Sex was made by God for procreation and that is why I don't think He intended it any other way. It is pleasing our partners in the right way!View Thread