Thank you for you help. I have been to a therapist several times by myself, he's the one that refuses to go....she has suggested a few things and has helped a little, but it will only do so much with only half of the party there... I will continue to point out the positive in everything as i've been doing already, like you said, maybe he'll just eventually "get it"
Whever i ask him to point out reasons and situations where he thinks i'm cheating, he can't come up with any, then he just gets mad and says once a cheater, always a cheater...I completely disagree with that, because i did once with my ex husband because we were very un-happy. Its simply NOT the same situation now and i never have in 7 yrs now.View Thread