I guess I would have to say the worst physical and emotional pain I've had was a miscarriage. No pain meds, at home in the middle of the night while my husband was sleeping. He told me the next day he had no idea I was in so much pain (I didn't try and wake him up).
Actual labor was not that bad, I had an epidural the moment the pain started and didn't feel a thing. The worst part for me came afterwards with a third degree tear. My daughter did not want to come out and after 3 hours of pushing they finally pulled her out with the forceps.View Thread
I guess I should have mentioned that the ex contacted me, I didn't think it was a big deal at the time. I'm sure he would have over reacted either way because for some reason he was always jealous of my ex.View Thread
I have never cheated and never plan on it. Just my upbringing (religious) possibly and the fact that I know and was taught better. I have been accused of cheating numerous times by my DH, he's very jealous by nature. I have never given him reason to believe that I've been unfaithful except once when we were first dating he was checking my text messages and I had gotten one from my ex telling me he was going to be in town and wanted to get together and do something (as friends), I declined. But DH held this against me for years and would always bring it up in an argument.
On the other hand, DH moves a lot for his work for 6-8 weeks at a time and I never gave him cheating on me much thought. I am a very trusting/naive person. I've been hearing lately when someone is accusing you of cheating it's because they are trying to hide something so it's definately made me wonder, but he's never done anything to make me question him.View Thread
Since we have kids in school I'm going to have to say Summer time. I would love to plan a trip to take the kids to Disneyland next summer but money is an issue for us right now. And also getting my husband's ex to agree to let us have the girls might be an issue.
It's hard to believe how many people have never seen snow in their lives. I live in Utah so we get it more than half the year it seems like. By Christmas time I'm ready for it to be gone. It's nice to look at but I hate driving in it.View Thread
I have a great job that I'm lucky to have. Good pay, benefits, and room for growth. I work long hours but in return I get long weekends. The problem I have is that I would rather be at home taking care of my kids. I get my work done and I'm here everyday because I need the pay check. I spend a lot of time talking to friends and reading webmd because there's not always a lot of work to be done. There are days (few and far between) that I do stay busy, I like those days because the time goes by quickly and I feel productive.View Thread
I tried posting yesterday but I guess it didn't stick..
I would take the money because I'm tired of never having what we need, I know it wouldn't last forever but it would get us where we want to be. Of course if my husband could get a decent job I would probably chose the great sex, we're pretty much lacking in both areas.View Thread
I never got to know my dad, he died in a trucking accident when I was only 3. I have no memory of him but I know he was a good man and a wonderful dad. My mom never got remarried, didn't really date at all, until I was 18. So I never knew what it was like to have a dad. My step dad is great with 7 kids of his own, all older than me. he takes care of my mom. He paid off her house and all of her debt and now she doesn't have to work. She just stays home and babysits all the grandkids.View Thread
1. Name Marian 2. Age 28 3. Occupation Manufacturing 4. SO- how long together Married 2 1/2 years together 6years 5. Kids? Twin step daughters (, 1 daughter (16 mo.), 1 more on the way (EDD 12/4) 6. Location Utah 7. Hobbies TV. movies, reading, crochet, sewing (just learning), 8. What your plans are for today Work all day, cook dinner, bedView Thread
Try having a birthday on Christmas, it sucks. I don't remember the last time I got an actual birthday present from my husband on Christmas. We don't go out either, we don't do anything, other than the usual family Christmas parties. Usually I buy all the Christmas in our house including for myself. I could write a million things down on a list that I wanted and my DH would be incapable of finding any of the items. I don't really mind but it would be nice for a little surprise to show he actually thought about me on that day.View Thread