I have been married to my husband for almost 14 years, have 2 beautiful kids, and thought everything was good with my husband and myself. I got up, found SEVERAL online sex websites that he had been going onto everyday for quite a while. I then found where he has been calling sex chat rooms, one after another for the past few years. I have never been soo hurt, confused, mad, sick, etc... ever. I've confronted him, and he can't tell me why they could give him something I couldn't. He says it's finished, but how do I ever trust him again or forgive him? I love him, but I don't deserve this and neither do my kids, who have no idea, I just want to understand all of it. Any advice please?View Thread