Oh, I am so sorry! You must be on such a roller coaster of emotions.. My heart goes out to you. Your description of how your husband is acting is disturbing. Is there any chance that you can convince your husband to go to counseling or see his physician? I think that would be the first step to take before considering divorce. Perhaps there is a bit of a depression issue or some other health issue that is the driving force behind his behavior. Of course, I don't know anything about your faith or beliefs, but here's a handy counselor referral I found on Focus on the Family's website for Christian counseling. Please let me know how you are doing. Hugs!View Thread