to answer your question, he is 25. i know he loves me but im just scared we'll end up like me and my ex. my ex was dating behind my back and hid everything from me. the current bf at least tells me things which is good. i ended up getting depressed to the point that i went from the weight of 115-120 to 98 in a week or so and constantly over drank alcohol. obviously im not gonna get that bad if mr and bf were to break up cuz i do have a little one now but i can tell that this depression the doctors told us i'd have is normal is starting to affect me eating. im lucky to make myself eat at least twice a day not including small snacks. and what also bothers me is that he is making me breastfeed. normally im ok with it but its really hard being the only one that can feed her and somewhat change her diapers. i really want to switch to formula that way we can have a babysitter for longer than an hour and so that others can feed her. And the fact that she has to be connected to my hip constantly is bugging me. if i leave to go to the store and she wakes up, she will nonstop cry till either she cries herself to sleep or i get home and take over.View Thread
my bf of almost 2 years and i had a baby. she's 2 weeks old now. i dunno if its cuz of that (even tho he acts like its not) or if its just me but during my pregnancy while he was playing his video games he met this bitch liz. they barely talk and everytime i snoop in his phone she calls him baby and says she misses him. a while ago he did admit that shes acting like they are in a relationship and it "bothered him". he never texts her back things telling her to stop. and I CANNOT confront him. we already got into a fight before about her and he made it clear if i did it again our relationship is over. i really want to believe him that nothing is going on but i just cant. im tired of crying over it in front of my baby. i just wanna talk to someone about it. i've been wanting to call her with a blocked number and say leave my man alone or act like a friend and say leave him alone but then she'll tell him about it and he'll know i did something... what can i do? i dont want to lose my relationship if i turn out to be wrong...View Thread