I praise God & You. The bleeding must be under better control and you didn't have to freak out over it. The human body is a wonderful thing God put together. It will repair the damage and move on if we let it. Im trying to quit smoking and need support. Im not in any relationship because havent found anyone worthy. Im not worthy sometimes but at others Im a great guy. Im so thankful you are doing better. Meds mess with our bodies and while necessary can cause detrimental side affects. The others are right you need to let your doctor know about the bleeding and all the meds you are taking, over the counter supplements & prescribed. The doctors job is to figure out what is causing this bleeding but rest well for tonight hun. Say a thank you prayer because someone is watching over you and cares.View Thread
wennanna one day at a time is right. I think you need to understand each day is unique and what is bothering a person today may not bother them tomorrow. Before making any rash decision shouldn't they seek counseling? Yes they should because their break up would be because of miscommuication of both parts. The husband cant understand & the wife can't explain the situation to him a professional is needed to bridge the gap. The husband is practicing avoidance therapy and this is very harmful but necessary because he cannot deal with the situation. If the lack of communication continues they will both seek unhealthy meens to remedy the situation. They need to find peace in and with each other not in a substance. Understanding is important but both have to be willing to work at gaining it's not a one sided situation.
Never place blame on another before examining the self and seeking a professional to help work out the delimma. Couples need to stay together but our society doesn't want to work at anything they want it handed to them on a silver platter. Life isn't like that though it is a process not a gimme.View Thread
You stated you had taken meds on and off for a few years. Have you considered staying on a medication and working with your doctor to achieve the appropriate level in your body. Psychiatric meds must build up in your system and when you go off and on them the optimum medication level in your blood is never achieved.
By all means though you and your boyfriend should not be living together while achieving the optimum level. There are too many swings in life alone and adding a relationship only adds more depressive posibilites.
You and your boyfriend should seek counseling. Meds alone are not the answer it is a combination of medication, monitoring, doctor intervention, and social activity are the anwer. Have you considered an in patient treatment facility where you can work on the depression issues? When You get out of the inpatient it is imparitive you follow up with out patient counseling.
Fix yourself first then let the relationship happen later. You have to be strong for you before being any help to another. You can do it though. Achieve not only personal satisfaction but also a relationship that is also satisfactory.
Love yourself enough to let your boyfriend know the problem before just opting out of the relationship though. If you don't you not only hurt Him but yourself because you may burn a bridge that was very stable.
Finally accept changes in life. People are ever changing creatures and it may be that your are no longer compatible but don't throw it all away before seeking professional therapy alone then together!View Thread
Check yourself into a mental health facility ASAP. Your life is more precious than gold and killing yourself is not an acceptable response. Life has many troubles we have to work through not opt out of. Be a conqueror and show him your strength in sustanance. This will start by seeking medical help. If he left you there is someone else out there but you have to be OK with Stacy before seeking a friend. Medication can help and psych. care givers will show empathy if you work towards a positive goal. How can you help others well serve the community in some way. The size ot the job is not important it is important to be on a job. If you develop a plan for your life let others fall into it & don't be heart broken if they step out of it. Use your inner power and find a support network. you need to talk with either a counselor or others in general about the dillema through this you will find an answer not death.
Death is an easy out but beware the cost. You don't come back from that journey. It is a permanent damnation not vacation. You need rest and possibly you can find that in a hospital. Don't let the stereo type of a psych ward scare you. It will strengthen you but give it time. SEEK HELP!View Thread