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I think you need to let him go and find someone who is older.We all gain weight and get...

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If she is not there for him at all he can go in to a deep depression.I have the same...

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Mom4all I have depression and you should push him but don't shut him out of your life. I...

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We are both getting better it's just going to take time. I been depressed so many years I...

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The Meds take a month to start working,they have to play with them to find the right...

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Tell her to start looking for a new job because it could help her to have a less stressful...

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Dear Lingua, Injuries/pain and depression go hand in hand. You can appear to be fine...

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Hello I am just like your spouse but I am trying to better myself.I would say to change his...

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Hello I am just like your spouse but I am trying to better myself.I would say to change his meds for one they do take a month to start working but if they aren't working then they need to be changed.Tell him he needs to stop drinking, it's a depressant and it will counter the meds and he will get no wear. Built his ego up, his self esteem he is beating himself up inside and needs to be positive.Get him into the sun and exercising or walking keeping busy to keep his mind off his troubles. He may be worrying about money, his health,his sex life. Not being able to give his kids better things. Be his supportive motivating coach. Now I know what a burden he may be and I know how you need help and somebody to build you back up maybe you have a friend or mom that can act as a support coach for you, a team effort. You Love him, make a positive change, take charge of making the both of you better.I can tell you this because my wife is in your shoes and she is taking the negative route with me she made me worse.Threw some positive steps I am taking I am starting to get better.I have stop drinking and when I get an craving I take my anxiety medication.We went to a marriage counselor I am going back to psychotherapy for cognitive coping skills I have to learn to cope with things better.Anyone depressed is unhappy about something so you have to get to the root of the problem. A person needs to have a sense of purpose that I am useful and worth something feeling.A person needs someone to accept him Love him for who he is unconditionally,he needs to be loved.And a person needs to hold a positive outlook on life. Having Faith in God creates a sense of Hope for better things to happen. All this takes time to heal for him and for you,you both need help and support,both have a positive attitude, both be your own coaches and motivate/support each other. If I can get my wife to do this then we both would be alright. If you can't get him to work on his depression or he just can't then you'll have to decide whether you have worked on this problem long enough or not,it won't be solved for months it has to be worked on for a long time.If after the right amount of time and effort by all and you still can't work it out then softly get out of the marriage taking care that he can take care of himself with out going off the deep end.(he has money a place to stay and someone watch out for him mentally) Do this the wrong way and he may get suicidal,you have kids You need to make this right with him taking away his kids and the loss of the relationship could bee too much it's his whole world.Love is very special please work it out.I hope that I have given you an in site and have been helpful I will be tracking this discussion. God bless you and good luck I wish the best for you.View Thread

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Hi Jeune I did go once and found that AA doesn't teach coping skills so I'm trying Smart...

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You may say what am I asking? I am asking how to deal with this Drinking, an unsupportive...

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