Bless her. And bless you for being there for her. What she is going through is tragic. If she is talking about taking her life, seek professional help immediately. If she's overwhelmed by the grief but not expressing suicidal thoughts, I think the best thing you can do for her is to continue to encourage her. Let her know that her baby needs her. She has a real and present purpose. Keep in close contact - check in with her everyday or a couple of times a day. Tell her she's done well when she gets up and does something. Don't push her, though. I think the best thing you can do is be there. Hold her. Let her know she matters to you.View Thread