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What you should be considered with is your
blood pressure
any heart issues
pre diabetic or diabetic
cholestrol
any other issue that excess weight complicates
and then if your stomach is over 35 inches if you are a woman. This is even more important than the BMI. I am usually just at 24 to 26 on the BMI but all of the above is very good (very low pulse, low BP, no history of diabetes, great cholestrol, no heart issues, hypothyroid, chronic pain issues unable to work which makes consistent exercise difficult-to-impossible but I do my best with my home exercise equipment).
I also weighed 300 lbs in my early 20's coming from a family with 75% of them having excess weight from 50 to 200 lbs and heart issues, cancer, high blood pressure, fibromyalgia (me too)....
I have lost over 150 lbs and have kept it off (now 55 years old) since that time but constantly fight hunger to try to lose that 15 lbs (would like to weigh 135-140 at 5'5") but from watching weight loss shows, I would guess I have at least an extra 5 to 10 lbs of extra skin on my legs that I do not have the money to have the plastic surgery (I did have the excess skin removed my my arms...batwing surgery).
I never eat out, don't go to parties, rarely eat meat, everything I consume is non and low fat dairy, protein bars, protein powder, flaxseed, cereal, oatmeat, fruit, vegetables....
Never been on Phenertemine but am on over a dozen medications for my headaches, migraines, chronic intractable neck pain syndrome/cervical radiculpathy, osteoporosis, ehlers danlos syndrome, fatty liver/enlarged bile duct (not from alcohol, with no tumor or stones), irritable bladder, reflux and more....
I say take and do whatever works for you but also exercise, find an activity you enjoy doing (mine is ballroom dancing which I have done since 1980) and find an eating plan that works for you that you can stick with 80 to 95% of the time.View Thread

BMI, blood pressure, pulse, cholestrol, any issues with diabetes or heart problems....these are the true factors that we should be concerned with. I was 5'5" and went to Dr. C. Wayne Callaway, leading encrincologist and teacher at Georgetown in DC, and his chart shows that I would be at a good weight from 110 to 165. There is a much broader range for our weight than most have any idea. It is based on these health factors as well as our bone structure and where we carry the weight (are we an apple or a pear.....carrying it around the waist with a waist of 35" or higher for a woman is unhealthy).
.We should all, including myself, think first of our health before we focus and obsess on our vanity. With my BMI of 22.1, no diabetes or heart issues, waist of 30", low B/P, pulse and cholestrol, I am healthy.
Are you?View Thread


You might try eating more dairy and adding Vitamin D to your diet (as your doctor to be tested; I was very low initially and now am at the very bottom of the normal range at 30 .....30 to 60 or 80 is considered normal.
Some physicians and research indicate that eating non and low fat dairy and taking adequate Vitamin D can help with your weight loss/maintenance.
I think we all have to find that balance for ourselves. Unfortunately pregnancies, personal history (I was 300 lbs in my late teens/early 20's and spent years and years yo-yoing), genetics (80% of my family are 75 to 200 lbs overweight), having chronic pain and thus osteoporosis and hypothyroid, my entire life I was pudgy to overweight to obese until the last 2 years.....these factors and others all influence our struggle to lose and keep weight off.
Do you have any exercise equipment or DVDs or like to walk? Anything you can do to add exercise is very important to this... My pulse today was 45 to 48 and B/P 95/60 and also have low cholestrol (160) and am not diabetic and have a waist under 32 to 35 for women are the health factors that are really more important than trying to look like airbrushed models who are not even "real" themselves.View Thread

I do not take laxatives nor do I vomit like a bulemic.
I throw up when my headaches become migraines and very inconsistently.... I can go months without vomiting and then vomit for 2 days straight and then another time vomit once or twice a week.....
I take anti nausea pills every day and when I vomit I add Phenergan suppositories.
If I did not limit my food, I would again be 165 to 175, a size 12 and a BMI above 25 (unhealthy). It is critical due to my osteoporosis and for my mental/physical health to continue to ballroom dance and dancing when you are heavier is very hard (especially as I also have exercise and cold induced asthma).View Thread

Clothes look better when they fit. Not too loose and not overly fitted. This is true no matter what your size is.
I think finding the right clothes for most women involves trying on many different styles....we come in all shapes and sizes....rectangles, pears and apples and depending on where you carry your weight and how firm it is should determine what you wear and how fitted it is.
I have a 32D rib cage and as a ballroom dancer I wear very fitted camisole underwire cotton/lycra tops normally with some full, gored, flounce, irregular hem skirt with a lot of movement. This makes me look even thinner as I have thin hands, feet, face, shoulders, back and clavicle.
No matter what your size, I think women need to look objectively at their size/shape and dress to enhance their positive attributes at the same time doing whatever they think best to not focus on their not-as-good features.
I think it is challenging for designers to fit on shapely women. They learn to design on size 0 to 4 and on women whose shapes are closer to a hanger or skeleton than to reality. Just watch Project Runway when they have a larger size or real size model challenge. The thinner models are always chosen first (if there is a choice).View Thread

Knee pain is very tricky and you need to try exercise equipment (at a store) to find what aggravates and what is ok. Wear braces, tape, ice/compress after exercise. With my fibromyalgia, something is ALWAYS hurting and I have braces for ankles, knees, back, neck and use ace bandages and athletic tape pretty much every damn other place on my body.
Take your meds before you exercise to be as pain free as possible (or OTC aspirin, Tynenol, Aleve). If you have had your knee pain for quite a while you may want to alternate heat with ice. Experiment. Elevate your legs the rest of the time propping them up on anything you own if you have to (my varicose veinned legs demand this).
What else can we do? Try to find things you enjoy in life....your pets, family, reading, crafts, whatever and take your mind off food. You should only eat when you are really hungry and then eat very slowly, drinking liquids like hot tea/coffee, water or diet soda all the while to fill you up, and stop at the first inclination of hunger subsiding. Stop eating til you are full. That is what does not work.
Good luck!View Thread

It is much harder for designers to design for larger women. They are not taught at Parsons and other schools of design how to and they don't ever bother to learn. It is challenging because it is a different shape. But it has to be possible. I have seen clothing fashionable on larger women. I loved the way Golden Girls were dressed as one example (the tallest woman slightly larger, I forget her name). She wore flowing garments that were very attractive most of the time.
The biggest thing they need to do is actually try these clothes on the women who will be wearing them. This goes for normal clothing sizes (how many of us are 5'9" to 6' tall and am abnormally underweight???) as well as larger sizes..... Please designers find true sized women for the clothing ranges you are designing for. You are doing a disservice to the public and ensuring that your pocketbook isn't as large as it could be.
30 years ago I weighed 300 lbs. I dressed poorly, wore the same 2 or 3 pairs of pants and maybe 5 or 6 tops. I didn't care what I looked like as I felt miserable. Your clothing shouldn't contribute to this. I am now a size 8 and can wear almost everything I try on with no issue whatsoever. What a difference! But it is very unfair.View Thread

Or go to your largest fabric store and ask for any seamstresses names and have tops made. Once you get a few tops you like and your seamstress can make them easily they may only be a little bit more money and yet you will find what you like, it will fit you and you can get the type of fabric and color you like!!!
You can also look for seamstresses in your area on the internet, in the Yellow Pages, local ads in papers, etc.
I never ever ever ever make round neck tops for myself!!! I understand what you mean about "faulty distribution". When I lose weight, I lose it in my hands, feet and face first; then my breasts, clavicle, back....not until the bitter end do I lose it in my stomach, hips, thighs and calves and it never gets to the point of being evenly disributed (too thin and bony with ribs, face, hands and feet and legs too heavy!!!).View Thread

It is very frustrating....I constantly think of what I am eating/diet.
I come from a family of heifers who have high cholestrol, high blood pressure, cancer, heart disease....and me myself weighed 300 lbs 30 years ago....so it is a never ending fight and I am sure it will be til the day I die.
I am always reading and looking for the latest pill or what have you that can help (I don't expect anything to do it all....I know that I will always have to eat very little and dance and exercise but Alli has made a significant difference).
I sure wish it were easier....
I drink tons of Diet Pepsi over ice (the ice melts into the Diet Pepsi...that is my water!). Whenever i've tried to drink water, I drink one glass of water/ one glass of Diet Pepsi. I just need the carbonation and the flavoring of a cola to fill up my stomach and help with the nausea and it also helps a little with my headaches/migraines.
I do not have diabetes, have good cholestrol, my b/p and pulse are excellent except when I am in pain and then they go up, my measurements are 36 1/2, 29, 36 1/2 and I carry my excess weight in my legs (and excess skin from my being 300 lbs in my legs....I need a thigh/leg tuck but cannot afford it).View Thread
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