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Still, there are a fair number of parents who just don't want to bother and live on hamburger helper or McDonalds because "It's what the kids like." I have a sister like that, swears her kids won't eat veggies but whenever those two boys visit anyone else in the family they ask for fresh veggies and fruits, then ask for seconds and thirds. They get dissapointed if we don't have home cooked food if they are over during meal times and instead opt. for cook out food (burgers, hotdogs, brauts, anything bbqed, etc.) yet she swears they are the ones who always want to eat out or don't want the veggies. When my nephew was 3 years old and what he wanted for a treat from grandma was peas and then ate the whole family sized package my heart broke. Earlier that day she swore her kids wouldn't eat any veggie other than canned green beans. I can't spoil my nephews with candy or soda or anything you would think an aunt would let a kid occasionally gorge on as a treat because that is what their mom gives them all the time and instead they come to my house and ask for milk, fruit (especially melon, which their mom will admit she doesn't get because she doesn't want spend the time preparing it) and veggies. My sister was raised differently, home cooked meals, lots of fresh fruits and veggies, very little sugary snacks and really snacks all together (it was fresh fruit, fresh veggies, or nothing for snacks growing up, except for one brief period when my mom was really into pretzles) but she is still in her early 30's rebelling by eating terribly. Ok, sorry for unloading about her but it really upsets me that she acts this way. She has introduced me to several other adults (with children) who are stuck in that mindset of a rebellious 14 year old, then they all complain about being fat?
Anyway, I know my state spends lots of time and money on educating about healthy eating, including the farmer's markets offering to double foodstamps to buy fresh food at the markets. The education about healthy living should be a bigger part of high school ciriculum because teens often forget what they were taught in elementary school either because of everything else they have to learn or just pure rebellion.
Oh yeah, and I admit I got fat off of home cooked, nutrient packed foods, just too much of them.View Thread


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Now, I'm not trying to chase you away from here, this is an awesome place for venting frustration and getting encouragement to keep on track. BabyFit is also a good place to get encouragement from a lot of moms going through the same thing you are right now. There are a lot of ladies who have chatted there since even before they found out they were pregnant but they are open to new people joining in their discussions and helping each other through everything life as a mom entails.
Don't give up, weight loss and learning to be healthier is a journey. There will be potholes and blown tires on the way but you will get there.View Thread


Thanks for the boost!View Thread

The strangest thing is I can't wrap my mind around the idea that it was such a short time ago that I was at my heaviest. I think part of the reason for this is I have adapted so well to a healthier life style that I can't believe how little I was moving and burning calories and how many calories I was taking in. It had to be so much different than what I am doing now, but I can't imagine it. Another reason I think it's so surreal is that I have dieted on and off since I was 10 and it always seemed to take so much longer to lose less than I have in this short time, but I think that is more because then the focus was on losing the weight so I never focused on maitenance afterwards. It's all very surreal.It's not like I have made huge lifestyle changes all at once, just a few things at a time, but when I think it's been just 7 months that I have been working on being healthier it feels like it has been all at once because 7 months is a short period of time when you look at the grand scheme of things.
The reason I am posting about all of this is today while I was out running around to activities for my kids I looked in a mirror in a bathroom and the t-shirt I am wearing looks huge on me as well as the pants I am wearing that are made to be tight are noticably lose. It's just an XL t-shirt (my husband's really) and it's really loose, maybe it is time for me to try on a medium since I know the large t-shirts we have fit me fine just a month ago. It's just one week from my birthday now (it's friday) and I'm not where I would like to be with my weight or size, but, goodness, I have come a long way and I am proud on myself this far.
So, how long has your current journey been underway and how far have you come?View Thread

It's not uncommon to be hungry sometimes, I know at least one day a month I find myself pacing the kitchen like a caged tiger trying to figure out what to eat because I am starving but finding that my stance on not buying snack foods keeps me from fulfilling that drive.
One of the things you can do to keep from feeling starving all the time is to take a look at the foods you are eating. Some foods, especially those high in refined carbs and sugars, can make us hungrier later. If those aren't in your diet you may want to see what the most calorie dense foods you regularly eat and figure out a less calorie dense food you can substitute in your daily life. Lots of veggies have lower calories which means you eat a larger volume to get the same calories you would get in a smaller portion of something like meats. You could also keep ultra low calorie snacks around like celery to munch on when you just need something to snack on.
Something else just popped into my head, I have read studies and heard over and over that sometimes our bodies mistake thirst for hunger. One of the things I do when I am hungry and it's not quite time for food is just down a big glass of cold water. It fills up the stomach which then has to warm the water to body temperature before it can absorb it so the stomach stays full longer staving off hunger. It has kept me from from mindless snacking at night after the kids are in bed.
After a while of eating less, your body gets use to it and you will find you aren't hungry as often and you feel full with a lot less. Stick it out and in the end you will feel better.View Thread


Instead of seeing that number as the maximum amount of calories I can have I saw it as the number to strive for without going over, but my life is not "The Price is Right" and I can't let myself get into that mindset. It was also that time of the month and when I weighed in on Monday I had gained 1.5 lbs, so I decided to change my logging style instead of scrapping logging all together. Instead of logging for calories and everything else I am going to just log what I ate. I think this will be helpful so I can check in with myself and make sure I am making good food choices without focusing on how many calories I have left that I can eat. Even being four or five hundred calories under my max I was still over the 1200 calorie minimum that people should eat so as long as I am listening to my body about when it is full and focusing on content I think I will do better on my journey to a healthy weight.
Now logging calories used in the day, that worked. I didn't start moving more or exercising that week, in fact I was less active because it was spring break so I was home with the kids, stuck inside because it was raining all week. Still, seeing that I am moving more and infact expending hundereds more calories than the minimum I should to lose weight according to the WebMD logger, makes me feel that I am on track as far as the exercise goes. I can't even imagine what I was doing before that wasn't burning that many calories or that I was not moving at least as much as I am now even though it hasn't really been that long since I was at my heaviest.View Thread

Norma, that is what I am planning on my journal being, more of a tool to figure out where I need to do to get into better eating habits. Luckily, my kids are still young enough that I can pretty easily enforce the rule that they eat what I put in front of them or they don't eat at that meal. Works well enough. We just don't have the money for it to be any other way and I'm not going to load my house with unhealthy things just because they are something my kids will eat. I've also cracked the whip on my husband not liking what I make and just getting himself something else for dinner because it gets in the kids mind that they can do the same. I even make him let the kids see him take at least one bite of veggies he doesn't like (and he doesn't like most) before I let him scrape the rest on my plate while they are not looking.
I stalled there for a while on weight, changed the way I eat at lunch, but now I'm ready for something more. I'm still not into restricting what foods I can eat because that just sets up in my mind to gorge on them when I slip up. I will still take it one week at a time and if I see that by the end of the week I am restricting too many calories then I think I will just log one week a month to check in on my routine.View Thread
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