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If these people are trying to "help" you see that they truly don't understand. Other than drawing the line an asking them to please allow you to find positive support, I am not sure how much you are willing to say.
Staying invisible also helps you to see more than most.
Some people feel that if they encourage you it's considered help. But sometimes it is very difficult for these people to understand why you don't want to eat because for people without ED, food is a need and comfort.
For your true friends, it might help if they research online about ED. Love, understanding and support goes a long way.