Hi You need to put things to the back of your mind for sex, are you stressed at work, stress is a great sex killer.
But then its also mind over what your doing, thinking of other things and not what you doing, will also do it.
Try this get naked with your women get it bed and just think of her her body, her vagina the sexy way she smells fill your brain with these, and the way she tastes, oral sex is great for foreplay, let her put the condom on, let her get on top of you why she is playing with your penis.
If got through this bit you should have an erection? yes, good.
See how it fills your brain, now go do it with her.
Other tips shower or bath together, try being naked together, all this helps you and her.
Hi Could well be the night shift doing this, night work will do that, I know have been there, did 3 shift working inn the UK 6 to 2, 2 till 10 and the 10 till 6 but the last one always throws guys.
And it will throw your sex life.
But one thing is go back to the chubby girl, if your still friends, and see how it goes there.
Ok you may be with a goddess that you feel comfortable around, but this at the back of your mind could be affecting you performance, did she give you oral in foreplay? did you lose it then?
How's your eating pattern and what your eating these will affect your performance, fast foods and junk foods (its the high salt and sugars)along with any meds you may be on, smoking and drinking alcohol, stress, all of these are sex killers chuck in nightwork, spells disaster in the bedroom.
Next time sex is on offer do it at a time your very relaxed and free from most of the above.
Hi Try this for your depression, just google natural way out of depression, if you can find a way with this, you could wean yourself off the drugs, you should find meditation as one way.
Now when it come to masturbation your touch with your penis should only be feather lint, this would replicate that of a vagina, and this is how masturbation should be done, just use some baby oil, this will help as well to get the right feeling you need.
Hi If you think your having prostate problems, the urge to urinate this you would get then urinate very slowly and sometimes not. If your that worried please go get some tests done ASAP But in your twenty's its something you should ne be having but then there's always the odd chance of getting prostate problems at an early age, but that's the same with anything. Find a good uro and work from there. It would be the best way to go. Good LuckView Thread
Hi I have what you would call mild fibromyalgia, and what I call fibrositis, I got over mine with a very simple thing called Apple Cider Vinegar with a once a day L-carrnitine, two capsules. Have a read of this link. http://www.wholesomeone.com/article/apple-cider-vinegar-fibromyalgia And also have a good read on www.earthclinic.com under fibromyalgia, lots of tips all natural. Are you on any drugs from your doctor for it, if so it could be the drugs side effect that's now given you ED. But you getting stressed is a sex killer, again ED side effect. Let me know if this is helpful.View Thread
Hi I will start at the bottom, as long as your both healthy and free of any STI's or STD's, then you both ok for oral sex, your wife will just love you for doing that when you cant maintain an erection, you can take her all the way to orgasm.
See and its your hard grip, its your penis, it needs retraining like I told you to, just think how delicate he vagina is, masturbating needs to replicate this feeling, she can help as well, with the light touch training, and dony7 forget the baby oil, have fun and ejaculating all at the same time. Do this standing, up kneeling or laying on your back, and even oral sex will help.
So Ok with the cutting back from porn and how much masturbating was you doing, as the cutting back would have worked like it sounds it is from both of these.
Look have read through these links of mine there on a site called www.fraktalk.org why been down this path of ED and these if you read them will tell you why and how I have got over it, you just have to google each title. DRUGS VERSUS HERBS, HERBS MY CHOICE DRUGS VERSUS HERBS, HERBS MY CHOICE, DAILY INTAKE NOHARDS HERB LIST WITH LINKS NOHARDS HERBS FOR ED, PART 2 I'm just given you these as there may be some help with your erections, its up to you which way you go, but it dose work and not a drug in site